A question for all the single women.

My name is Cruz. I am 19 years old and i live in Houston, Texas. For a while now ive been in various relationships, most lasting no longer than 9 months. Im a hopeless romantic i guess you could say and im desperatly in need of affection. Anyways. My last relationship was fairly long so i guess you could say i lost the skills needed to begin a new one. I just cant get back on the right foot. Not to be self centered or conceided but i have had very many comments given to me about my appearance to be fairly confident in it. So that part i really dont think is a problem. Its the part when the introduction and meeting plays its role. I am always encountered when women that i see that strike ever attraction i have in me and i find myself completely infactuated with them for those few moments im in their company. Its very strange to actually put that into words but i guess its the truth. Anyways the question is this. How would you like to be approached by someone you've never met, in a way thats non confrontational and without all the sleeze and pick-up line methods. Im not looking to have one night stands with these women but possibly meaningful relationships, or atleast give it a try. I am just a little lost on how this can be done. All im asking is for help because to be honest im not too sure where else to turn to. Thanks

 

Just be yourself. I am in a similar situation and I guess it just takes time. No use in rushing anything we are still young.

 

"Hi there" *insert miscellaneous small talk ie the weather, work, the mall, whatever/wherever* "Hey, would you like to grab a cup of coffee sometime?"

not guaranteed to work, but not a creepy approach so long as you aren't all awkward with your approach.

 

You're a wuss. You'll never get anywhere.

Girls like difficult guys.

 

IronGoth, that's a really bad thing to say, and so untrue. Just to let you know, girls aren't all the same.. so how the hell do you know what every girl likes?

But like hiro said,just be yourself. I like it when guys are just honest and themselfs.. i can't stand it when guys come up to ya, trying to be all mr. tough guy... it's so old and lame.
I don't know about other girls, but i think it's really cute when guys are a bit shy

There's someone out the for you, you'll see. Just don't give up to fast

 

IRON GOTH IS right, women like challenges, if a girl is interested and u seem not so interested she has to work harder to get you, but u acting like she is so this or that isnt so much a turn on. Hey don't ask me why it works but chicks have minds like that. They value what is harder to obtain as having more value

 

challenges can be neat at all, but if you think they aren't interested in you whatsoever, they wont' pursue you. Balance.

 

lol isnt it interesting how the guys are saying girls like the oposite of what the girls are saying they like?
in general guys are clueless about women
whats wrong with having a freindly chat, or even a very deep meaningful conversation..& then just saying simply hey..your pretty awesome..we should hang out more often..& from there just let it become whatever its meant to become..
i have plenty of freinds..lifelong freinds that i felt a strong attraction to at first..but i wouldnt trade in the freindship i made for anything.. & then theres others i just thought of as freinds untill there was just a certain inperceptible spark that took it in an unexpected direction
honnestly to these clueless guys calling you a wuss
theyre the true wusses hiding behind a false "dificult guy" or tough guy act..afraid to show theyre true selves
be who you are..open & vulnerable..thats the only way to find the person whos soul matches yours..& dont be in a hurry..she will show up right when shessuposed to

 

i couldn't agree with that more! the right people seem to come at the right time

-z

 

i am female and i must say that sadly, this is true for me.

 

getting tied down sucks anyway. There's so many responsilbities. You should probably just live life while your still young. The reason why it's hard to find someone is your to desperate and not very confident. Just relax and have a good time. Fate when greet you when she's ready.