More Love!

Do you beleive that you can be truelly in Love with 2 people ??

I have bit of a dilema!

 

I don't believe you can be 'truly' in love with 2 people (I haven't anyway).. I have cared about 2 ppl and wanted to be with 2 at the same time, but it wasn't love.. I always cared for one a little bit more than the other, that's how I made the decision.. If I was involved with 2 people and believed I was in love with both of them I'd probably end it all with both of them..

 

Thats good advice, then after some time you may realise which one you love!

Anyone else agree ??

 

no, but it's a cool thing to believe

 

Not if you one of the 2!!!!!!!!

 

I guess it would be possible. Surely you could find SOMETHING about one that makes you happier than the other person though. I guess I'd just have to know the situation.

 

Well I am one of the 2 that someone claims to be in love with!

 

She has been with him for 4 years, and met me about a year ago, started off as a bit of fun but got very serious.

Now at a stage were we cant sneak around anymore!

She is not 100% happy with her fella, but wont leave him as she says she loves him!

But doesn't want too end it with me as she says she loves me and wants too be with me!

But I doubt her love for me as if she did feel what she says then she would be with me, and would make it possible for us too be together exclusively!

Anyone agree with me ???

 

There are all different types of love. She probably feels secure with him, as I'm sure she's been through lots more with him and such. He KNOWS her, so to speak. History is hard to get away from, in my experiences anyway. Nobody is 100% happy with anyone, imo.
I can see you doubting her loving you. I guess you need to let her know it's either you or him. You don't deserve going through the pain of her indecision.

 

Thank you.

I have been unable to talk too anyone in this, as things alwasy have a way of bieng told too the wrong person, as its a small worls we live in !!

Everythinh is great between us, sex is amazing for both of us*, but its beyond that now!


*Now I know which one she prefers in this area! lol!

 

Just to give you all an update!

She ended it as she wants to get back to the way she was with her falla!

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God, YES! Don't get me started!

 

Part of being in love is the dedication to that one person... so technicly no I guess u cant.... but on the other hand, yes I think you can. =P im no help am I? lol

 

You can want to spend the remainder of your life with two people, I suppose.

 

yes i am sure you can be inlove with two people at once..
never happened to me... but hey, i have never even been in love with one person... haha