alright, so i've been in a relationship for maybe almost 5 months now...hes an 18 year old guy, and im a 17 year old girl so things were pretty heavy earlier on. but...as i find it, we are very rarely ever having sex anymore, like maybe once every 2 weeks..sometimes less.. is this normal? just a dry spell? any input please its just like, i think we both feel kind of funny talking about it, but the actual act of doing it isnt the problem..just bringing up why we dont have it anymore..is not so great.
If you are both not too panicked about it, just go with the flow, don't force the issue. But, I would make sure you talk it out very thoroughly, and make sure that you are both cool with it. If one of you isn't, make that known, and try to solve the challenge together. Communication is the key. I found that outside stresses sometimes caused lulls in my love life, just cuz I was too distracted by them to feel 'in the mood'. Once the stresses lessened, the vitality returned. If you love each other, and both aim to totally satisfy the other in bed, your sex life will only get better over time. My most incredible times in my life have been only since I was 39, cuz of the bond between my lover and I. We just clicked. The 6 day period when we were not intimate was not from lack of love, but was the result of events unfolding that were more important to our future, and that is okay. If you both try to learn how best to please each other, you will find that it just keeps getting better and better. Sometimes it is healthy to take a breather, too. We went through periods when a good part of each day was spent at it.... and that wears you out after a while.
wow.. once every 2 weeks.. that must be really bad huh... im 18 and so is my girlfriend of over 3years.. its been months since weve done it..
Maybe you guys should try spicing things up. Light his pants on fire and put 'em out with your tounge. Seriously, maybe you guys should try getting away for a weekend or something. Maybe you guys are stressed out and you feel guilty about not having sex as often. You shouldn't feel guilty or anything, just try and get some nice alone time where you guys have nothing to worry about but each other.
Just go up to him and rip his cock outta his pants and rock his fuckin world! That's all it takes to have sex... Safe sex is nice too, so you might wanna add another step or two to that first sentence. Either way, that's all you gotta do.... oh, and get naked yourself... beer, whiskey, or pot will probably help too.
It's normal. Most couples go through an initial hot spell, then it slowly tapers off into a routine (on average, once a week). In my case, because my partner and I live 100 miles and an international border apart from each other, we make love at least once every time we have "quality time" together (Ususally about four times a YEAR). -- Skeeter
I would say that if you could find a way to discuss what both of you are feeling that the sex will come naturally. It is not uncommon for young people to have trouble discussing sexual matters openly. Try to find a way to talk about sexual frustrations and the sex will be that much better. And of course it is normal for couples to go through spells where they have lots of sex and spells where they have very little sex. It would be a good idea for you to learn how to discuss sexual preferences, concerns ecetera now instead of later. You sex life will be much more rewarding. BE-IN
Here is your first problem. Here is your second problem. Here is your third problem Your fourth problem will be that you won't accept these as your problems so you won't ever solve anything. You may believe at your age you have the ability to know exactly what your involved in, but you don't. When you get older, you'll gain this knowledge and look back and say.. AHHHHH, now I get it! Until then, the best thing you could do is quit having sex.
every 2 weeks? for people your age, that seems quite infrequent... are there any issues between you two? you don't seem to be the shy type, so i'm sure you've tried the other option posted here (rip his cock out and such)... maybe you need to take the time out and think, then sit down with him and have a little heart to heart chat... at your age i was the friggin energizer bunny, sex at least 3 times a day... lol, now i'm down to every other day...
