sorry I missed the era of carrier pigeons

[font=&quot]I have been seeing a married man from work for nearly six months. We have a great time together and no one is expecting anything resembling real commitment. It’s better that way for now. But I have a logistics question. Will my lover’s wife be able to trace where his calls are coming from if I use a phone service separate from my cell? I have considered getting a calling card now that he and I no longer work for the same business and we can’t stop by to visit and make plans as we have before. [/font]

 

Easiest thing to do would be to stop stealing someone else's husband

 

my opinion would be not to mess with someone who is married and in the end his wife will find out cause karma happens hon...

 

I think if anyone one deserves a dose of karma it would be her lover(the husband).

 

really, ya dont say...

she was asking about his wife finding out and she will cause thats what i meant by the karma part...

 

Trust me, the wife will find out.. Women are not stupid and wives know if their husband is seeing another woman.. If I was you I would end it, hell I would have never started it, BUT seeing as how you're asking for advice I'd go with the calling card.. As far as I know they can't be traced, and when you call him it will show on the ID as 'out of area', 'unknown name' or something similar..



I have my own question, howcome you can't have sex with someone who isn't attached?? It's women like you that cause problems for some married couples.. Before anyone says it takes 2 to tango, I'm well aware of that but that doesn't mean that the woman should go around broadcasting it as if what she's doing is ok..

 

probably best to judge each relationship individually and on its own merits but i do understand your opinion.

 

Everyone is human, but think of the consequences of what you are doing. What if his wife finds out? I'm sure she already has vibes on him cheating on her, because like they said..karma. If she doesn't know, she's probably ignoring the feelings..Think about what you are doing and what can happen! Are there kids involved? Will this tear up a family? Think and be proactive because you may be making one of the worst mistakes in your life and you and/or him could hate yourselves later for it, also, it could end ya'lls friendship in the longrun. More than likely someone is going to get hurt.

 

[font=&quot]I am so curious about the context behind your relationship with this man. Is it just sex? Romance? A little of both? What is his relationship with his wife like? It is easy to say you should never date a married man, as everyone here has said, but as we all know, there’s a lot of things we do even though we shouldn’t. But to answer your phone question, my sister is using a service called OneSuite, a non-mobile based long distance service if you remember those. It gives her a local access number for others to call. Probably looks pretty discreet, if that’s what you want, and it won’t cost you much more than what you pay for your cellular service.[/font][font=&quot] [/font]

 

oh my god there's a million nice single men in the world why take someone elses?

 

I think married couples have problems that start with the couple. Outside forces will only affect them if weither partner decides to let them