okk...i went out last night for my birthday. i invited all my friends & the guy i really liked. now, as the evening went on i noticed my best friend getting slowly closer to him. in the end they were all over each other. now it's a shame about the guy cos i did really like him but if he's willing to go off wit someone else, well it's obviously not meant to be. the real problem is my best friend, if you can even call her that. she knew i liked this guy; she knew all the problems i've had in the past year wit my ex but she just couldn't help herself. the weird thing is i don't get why she did it. she's 'seeing' someone who she really likes so why go after this guy? but really the joke's kinda on her b/c i found out last night that this guy i liked has worse problems than my ex, who had a heroin addiction!
Sorry about your friend and the boy. Lots of girls will do that sort of backstabbing thing even when they say they won't. But there are even more girls who will respect their friendships over anyting else. It is just deciding which is which. But at least your "friend" now has to deal with her wrecking her friendship with you over some guy with something worse than a heroin problem. I'm sure she feels like an idiot.
Nothing to be crying about. You should of asked if you could watch and also take pics. This is so Springer
hmm, this is a painful one indeed. they just fucked with your ego . I'd be really pissed for this one, probably try to get some revenge (that is NOT related to them being together but to them being who they are). Your "best friend" must have revealed some weak points she has. Use them now. Then don't forget to move on, it's healthy.
Fair enough, but just cause you like someone doesnt mean hes out of bounds to your friends. At the end of the day if you were acutally seeing him then I'd agree your mate was in the wrong, but since your not seeing him then there shouldn't be a problem
Oh, man. This is something I have come across more than once, and it's happened to me. Ok, here we go: Fact 1; the chick who made a move on this dude, KNOWING you liked him and intended to try it on yourself, is NOT your friend. A friend would respect that you were entitled to a crack at this guy, first, even if she fancied him. Isuspect she's probably a bit more assertive than you, and took full advantge of this fact. Fatc 2; Sooner or later, assholes of the male and female variety end up with each other. So, consider this a filter test, whereby your 'friend' (Juh, yeah! ) showed her true colours, and this dude is - clearly - an asshole aswell. Fact 3; I KNOW it's difficult for ya, babes, but ignore your womanly conditioning and DON'T be attratced to assholes, hoping you can change their less desirable features. You can't. You CAN find a nice guy, and put on 'EDGE' on him, though. Consider this carefully, because - sadly - not many women are smart enough to both realise this and try it. Good luck, and they both did you a favour, honey.
