What is it with males i mean ive ben in many relationships and when they get to ending it before i (rarely) but well what is it wehn tehy say they have mixed feelings and cant give a valid reason , it has been on my mind alot these past week anyone know or any males can answear it?
not all males are like that.. but its hard to understand what you are even asking about.. so you are saying whats with males ending it before you do, but you say you do it to, what, i am confused...
Well, it's pretty simple, really. There is, you see, this myth that women are the gentle sex and all that, and men are supposed to be gentlemen etc etc. BUT, of course, times have moved on, and today's women - quite rightly - feel equal to the men. But some things die hard, and many men are raised to be pretty gentlemanly, even now (NOT that many women appreciate this, sadly, but hat's a topic oft covered in other Posts) they find it difficult to just say to a woman, well, that's it, babes. It's been good, but we're through.' Now, most women, on the other hand, I have found to have no qualms WHATSOEVER in being blunt to the point of pain when ending a relationship. OR they come up that womanly classic, 'let's just be friends', this is the only womanly equivalent of men 'beating around the bush, instead of just saying what they mean' when trying to terminate a relationship.
both men and women never know what they want or know how to talk to each other about it, so its not men this or women that, both do the same stupied shit,i agree it is annoying (i dont think annoying even discribes it well enough) when someone cant just tell stright out and has to do that "hint" crap, or doents know how they feel
Aspie20 I think it may have someting to do with your personality. Not that you have a bad one, but maybe the men in your life feel that you will take the break-up poorly, or maybe their worried that you will get mad and start a fight. Men usually have fragil egos that they will protect by moving away from people that might hurt them.
