I have had it with cheap, meaningless sex

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by bird_migration, Jun 25, 2004.

  1. bird_migration

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    Well, not really but it is starting to bother me that I have not loved someone (as in a boy-girl loving, caring, sexual relationship) for quite some time.
    All I get is meaningless yet cheap sex and there is nothing better than sex with a person you truly love.

    Does that bother you too or do you live for having meaningless yet cheap sex with a random person?
     
  2. HappyHaHaGirl

    HappyHaHaGirl *HipForums Princess*

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    Yeah.....sex doesn't mean anything to anyone anymore....just accept it. It's all about breaking records these days. See if you can beat Gene Simmons. Then you can be my hero. :D
     
  3. bird_migration

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    I bet I have better genes than that Simmons.
     
  4. HappyHaHaGirl

    HappyHaHaGirl *HipForums Princess*

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    I hope so, because if this kid pops out with a lizard tongue, I'm gonna be fucking pissed! :mad:
     
  5. bird_migration

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    Damn, I was hoping you could give me some lizard-tongued children.
     
  6. Sunnie

    Sunnie Jes-Jes

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    Casual meaningless sex is the only sex I've ever had. I just never met anyone that I could stand to be in a relationship with...until last month.
    It's definetly a different change of pace, being in a relationship. I can't wait to sleep with him, but he wants to wait :S
     
  7. Herbert

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    I think there´time for everything. Meaningful relationships aren´t easy to come by, I guess that´s what makes them meaningful huh. So between relationships I´ll take what I can get.
     
  8. makno

    makno Senior Member

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    ive had it with meaningfull relationships{the best of which are burdensom}and want only sex !
     
  9. asickchick

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    ......I hate that too.....makes me feel cheap and it's just some kind of exercise routein.....
     
  10. kitty fabulous

    kitty fabulous smoked tofu

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    i just got my heart broke recently over the ending of a relationship that was purely non-sexual. yeah, i could use some sex, but i feel burned out right now emotionally. i'm beginning to think i just want to stay uninvolved until i get my shit together & know what direction my life is moving in.

    i am considering investing the money in a high-quality japanese vibrator. :rolleyes:
     
  11. drewbee

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    See! Everytime! The rules to life.

    the nice guys always end up with the slutty/bitchy women,
    whilst the nice girls always end up with the asshole/dickhead boys,

    my advice, find the nice one!!!!!!

    <-- always finds the slutty/bitchy one that cheats on him all the time lol

    I must suck. lol
     
  12. Magical Stars

    Magical Stars Banned

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    I have had 17 children with many different men. I have only loved twice in my life. I have had meaningless sex for god knows how long but sex is sex and i enjoy every moment of it.
     
  13. Mui

    Mui Senior Member

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    not fed up with meaningless sex quite yet... im too young to be expecting perfect relationships! Amen. It's really quite worth it, takin in account that you wont have to worry about a relationship breaking up...

    (least thats my reasoning)

    just get yer friends w/ benefits to go on tha pill.

    wee
     
  14. kazinspace

    kazinspace Member

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    wow! how do u coap with 17 kids
     
  15. xthevalkyriex

    xthevalkyriex Member

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    Maybe it's more due to the fact that you think of some women as "slutty bitches" than it is due to the fact that you're a "nice guy".
     
  16. bluefairy

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    i think it means something. im annoyed though...i havent seen my boyfriend in 2 weeks and wont see him, still, for a little over a month. im getting a little frustrated. i hope hes not b/c from what ive experienced, guys cant wait as long as girls can. but im freakin out...i want him here, right now...why is he so far away?! grrr
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  17. sm0key42o8

    sm0key42o8 Senior Member

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    I feel the same way-about the univolved thing, not the vibator. But I would suggest getting one, I have a pocket pussy(makes all the difference)!
     
  18. sm0key42o8

    sm0key42o8 Senior Member

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    I think if he really loves you he would be able to hold out for you!!!
     
  19. bluefairy

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    i hope he really loves me.
     
  20. dreamzephyr

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    For the past few years I have been in a meaningful relationship. Prior to that, I have had a small but fair share of cheap meaningless sex, and I can attest to the fact that after you have sex in love, the meaningless sex will become much less appealing. In fact, if things dont work out in my current relationship (which would crush me), I dont believe I would ever go back to sex without love. Guess I am just a sap. Or spoiled. Or both probably.
     

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