Hey peeps. I have a problem for ya'll cause I am freaking out. I'm a virgin, but I do masturbate, I've never actually gone inside though. So now I'm supposed to have sex with someone (dont worry not casually, lol), and when I tried to masturbate I can fit one finger, but when I try to fit two, its really hard to stretch and its hurts... so how the hell does the guy plan on having sex with me... is it easier to stretch when Im more relaxed, (cause its kinda hard to relax having sex the first time, with worrying if its gonna hurt and whatnot)? Cause I'm telling you, if its hard and really hurts to not even be able to fit even two fingers, I'm really freaking out about how bad itll hurt when he tries to put his penis up there... whats everyones advice, or experience with this?
i think everyone has experience with this.. its called LOOSING your virginity for a reason. your tight, so its going to hurt the first time a guy sticks his, hard thick dick, inside you.. your himen will break causing pain, and maybe even bleeding. Every girl goes through this in her life.. it is a good experience, but it only happens once. Some girls thank god for that . Make sure you guys have lotsa fore-play, that will lube you up naturally. if you have a hard time getting "wet" buy some lube from the store. Take it slow, and try to be relaxed. the more you tence up the more pain you will feel. And most of all.. Have fun bitch!
LMAO thanks bitch... I'll let you know how it goes :\. Still kinda freaked out, and worried Im gonan disappoint, and cry like a baby, but guess I'll deal Trish
dont fret... if it is too painful, tell him to stop. he'll understand, if he cares. it is less painful with time.. so take your time and keep things SLOOWW>> hehe
My first time didn't hurt that much. I was a little sore after.. Even after 7 years of having sex, if I don't have sex for a few months I get really tight and it gets sore again if I get fingered or have sex. It passes and usually still feels good after the pain subsides. If your guy is up for it and likes that kind of thing. Have him eat you out and get you to cum first. It'll lube you up nice and probably relax you a little bit.
my first time didn't hurt at all. Lots of foreplay, let him finger you so you slowly stretch out, and DO NOT move faster than you feel comfortable with, emotionally and physically
a few glasses of wine might help, i just hadda comment on squicky tho hehe to funny, never heard that one before
