I am seventeen and am still a hand holding virgin. When am I officially a pathetic-destined to live alone with ten cats-freak?
I was 17 when I lost my virginity.... honestly, wait until you're genuinely comfortable with whomever you were planning sharing yourself, don't hurry yourself because of your age. There are 20-something virgins out there still.
No....I have never even held hands with a member of the opposite sex......as well as being an actual virgin.........
im still a virgin but the fact that you have never even held hands now thats a littile sad, why havent you?
Well thanks for not bull shitting me and pretending that I am perfectly normal....lol....I dunno....I'm kinda shy with most people, and not a 'touchy feely' person at all...So that's probably why
Dude, I thought the same thing as you. I had kissed 2 people and was still a virgin when I turned seventeen. I felt like the only one, so I know how you feel. One party where I drank WAY too much changed that and now I sort of wish for that virginal time again. Now I am known as the biggest slut in town. People don't even care that I didn't know what was going on for most of it and they get pretty mean. Don't feel bad. There ARE people like you, and trust me, being "the virgin" is better than "Gang bang bitch." Wait until you find someone special. It'll be worth the wait. Until then, maybe you just need to focus on finding out who YOU are.
No! Don't even think that! Its not a big deal. People put waaaay too much emphasis on it. The important thing is the quality of a relationship. How many non-virgins do you know who are/were in a shitty relationship that made them unhappy? I was also very shy and hadn't even held hands with a guy until I met my now-husband at 26. And we are so very happy in our relationship, you can't get me to stop running around nekkie, and we have just the one cat
That happened to my sister when she was 14. She was supposed to go to the movies with some girls from school. Ended up at a party, bunch of guys got her drunk and gang raped her. She was known as "Slush Puppy" (slut + lush) at school the following week. She made up all kinds of lies about herself and our family until the state was awarded custody just to get away from the cruel remarks from her peers.
Damn, girl. Yeah, i'd make some crack about what's this world commin to when 17-year olds are lamenting their virginity, but I too am feeling the pangs of pre-coital existance.
