I have never brought this to anyones attention: IE: doctor. I am asking for something i can do to have sex longer. i have read numerous things online and none seem to work. i can have sex for about 5 or 10 minutes and then splat! the milk man drops of a bottle. this also haoppens when masterbating, oral sex, and hand jobs. i masterbate vigerously (really fast) and it takes about 3 minutes to blow. I just want to have sex and please HER instead of just ME. any suggestions? thanks 20yroldmale
Don't think about what you are doing too much while you are doing it.... Learn to sense when you are about to come,and hold off until it passes
i remember renting this ron jeremy documentary and he says the only he lasts long is keeping his mind on other things. even grandmas lol screw
My boyfriend always does what he calls "pinching it off". If he feels like he is about to cum before I do, then he (I've never done this for him, so I'm not EXACTLY sure how he does it) just pinches his cock like right below the head and he says that stops him from cumming for a few more minutes. He does this to himself like right before he cums, at least that what he tells me. Anyways, thats what he does... hope it helps.
You cum after 3 mins when masturbating? thats probably your problem, when you feel you are about to orgasm hold off and keep doing it untill you want to orgasm. Personally i wank for a minimum of an hour sometimes up to 3 hours... It will probably be hard work at first but after awhile it becomes really easy, feels natural to hold off after you get use to it. They say masturbate like the way you want to have sex.
Your condition was caused by masturbating too fast and is a very common problem with Men. When many Men are young they are in fear of getting caught and do it fast. Then it becomes a pattern etc. Take your time and also take some Tantra Sex courses which will also educate you in the many ways to pleasure your partner too. Maybe if you were busy with that you would take your mind off yourself. After taking and teaching Tantra I can go all night long and the only ones it seems to bother are my neighbors. LOL Hang in there and take some time to enjoy it. Peace The Wiz
get your partner to grip the top of you sack and pull down firmly (but not hard) just before you cum. it holds back orgasm. its always worked for me and my men.
I was about to say what someone else has mentioned. Look into tantra and the idea of sacred sexuality. Namaste Francine
Here's a thought: get her off before you even enter her! Use your fingers, use your tongue, go buy a vibrator, it don't matter! There are a lot of women out there who will NEVER orgasm from intercourse alone. You need to stimulate her clit and try to find her g-spot. Spend as much time focusing on her as it takes, then you can move on to the penis-in-vagina type of sex. Also, after the first orgasm, it's easier to get there again, at least in my experience. The more orgasms I have before intercourse, the quicker I am to orgasm during intercourse.
do you have to register with this forum to use it or ask a question? as someone mentioned something about reistering in this thread.
That's easy: Concentrate everything on pleasuring your partner to bring her to climax first, before you even think of reaching orgasm yourself. Of course, if you can climax with her simultaneously, that's great. Bottom line: Please her first, then yourself. Especially in sex, it's much better to give than to receive. -- Skeeter
