Accepting(is that spelled right? It looks off.) advice and whatever else you have to say. Well I was "hanging out" with this guy I met at school for almost a year and it was like we were dating except we never kissed or anything, finally last month he decides "well I guess it is time to kiss her" so we did. And that happened a few times, but sometimes we would just hang out and nothing would happen at all. The last time we hung out we kissed before he left and I guess I was a little to aggressive for him (imagine that) and he said "lets not get too wild". We were just kissing for fucks sake. How wild can it really get? He used to text me everyday and now I have not talked to him in over two weeks. I still really like him because I am an ass. I sent him an e-mail and texts which he has not responded to. I, because I am an idiot, cannot get over it until I know why he is ignoring me. I would just like someone else to tell me what I am already thinking so I can stop feeling shitty about it. God I am a loser. thanks mindy
Let him go for awhile...maybe he feels like you're suffocating him right now. If it's meant to happen, he'll come back. Give him a little time.
what an idiot he is. "let's not get too wild"... it's killing me. however i can almost feel what u feel and i know it's hard, but u need to focus on someone or something else, urgently. this shitty situation's gonna eat u alive. find something to do to distract your attention from him, take some distance and u'll discover you're starting to forget him. the principles of love and attraction are based on the secretion of certain hormones (dopamine, ocitocine etc)in the presence of the loved one, and you missing him can be explained by your body missing these hormones. alike the addiction problems, unhealthy attractions will fade away after a while. just don't write to that asshole anymore please. in 2/3 of weeks u'll laugh thinking about him.
I hate quoting tv, but from an Oprah show they had a very similar story and the answer was "he is just not that into you". They said the most likely case is that he has another girl (or girls) he is more into, and is stringing you on in case those don't work out. Don't waste your emotional energies on him. If he cannot see how great you are then its his loss. Go do something creative.
send him an email or text that asks plainly what his problem is. the fact that he's avoiding you is rude. If he isn't into you, he should have the balls to tell you. If he doesn't he was never worth your time anyway. Go find a guy who doesn't think kissing is a "little too wild"
Yeah "lets not get to wild" really made me laugh. I sent him an e-mail a few days ago and said this This was his response I like how he says he didn't realize he hadn't talked to me then says he wanted to chill out.
