Honestly guys.... Do you care at all?

I have so many different groups of friends, and the guys are all the same.. they love talking about them selves, and if they arnt doing that they are trying to get in my pants...

The guys on here are so much different though.. Like, when i logg on hipforums, i see that i have four pm's. I go and check them and they are from my several guy friends on here that actually care.. In reality it isnt like that though. Why cant all guys be as sweet as you hipforums boys .

I'm pathetic ...

I know no all guys are like that... But GEEZ!! sure seems like it.


So my questions are....

Do guys care about what a girl thinks at all?
Do you ever ask a girl about her day and actually WANT to hear the answer?
or do you believe that boys and girls cannot be friends because the "sex" part always gets in the way? *o yea i'v seen that movie "

{you'll notice i edited the post, due to me not being specific enough}

 

I don't know the answer to the first two questions, but I have LOTS of guy friends that aren't looking to get in my pants. In fact, I've lived with a group of guys and I was never involved with any of them.

I guess I'm just "one of the guys" to them. A few weeks ago when the NBA finals were on, I got a phone call from one of my friends that went like this: "Hey, Annie, want to come watch the Piston's game with us? We're having a guy's night out."

Yeah...it's like that...

 

I have one guy friend ( one of my best friends ) that always wants to chill with me, we get drunk/high, watch scary movies, and crash on his bed,.... He has a girlfriend, and I havent ever thought of him in a sexual way.

but the other 12 guys i hang around, are a different story.. ha

 

I care how people feel. I'm a nice guy--too nice.. but I have no time for relationships or anything at the moment. So that is kind of .. lame.

 

honnestly most of my closest freinds are sisters, & only a couplre of thenm had i thoiught of "getting in theyre pants" as you put it
i really respect & love my freinds & i spend many many many hours talking to them & listening to everything they have to say..even strangers who i've just met we've spent hours talking over many personal things.
occassionaly things did get flirtatius & playful sexualy in the past but the freindships always came first
i have many guy freindsalso but few are anywhere near as close as my female freinds, & i tend to respect them less..for exactly the reasons you stated & others.
i've always develoed more meaningful relationships with my female freinds because in general they have been more willing to allow theyre true inner being to be seen & are more likely to reach ou when they need to talk ..instead of how many men would just externalize theyre emotions

 

Maybe if you didn't go traipsing along in slutty outfits like these



You wouldn't give people the wrong impression...... Harlot!

 

shadow, how was your day? i forgot to ask & i'm sorry..
if youd like to talk about it..or anything..i'm here... hugs

oh & annie..you might be just 1 of the guys.. but your one of the guys i respect
luvin you

hugs

 

what the fuck are you talking about idiot? have some respect.. do you even know the 1st thing about her?
whats wrong with that outfit? she looks just fine to me..
see..this is why i have very little respect for most guys
sis..i'm sorry for this braindead idiot

 

Get off your soapbox man. I was just joking.

 

didnt come off asa joke.. if your freinds & were joking around i appologize

 

Do guys care about what a girl thinks at all? I do, actually more than what I think.
Do you ever ask a girl about her day and actually WANT to hear the answer? Yes.
or do you believe that boys and girls cannot be friends because the "sex" part always gets in the way? Thats Hogwash.

The funny part is that Ive never been in a relationship

 

Where is that a slutty outfit? Thanks for your opinion, but i Have no respect for what you said.
greg

 

I did come on a little strong. I was just joking though.
I apologise to any I offended

 

Do I care what a girl think about different stuff... well yeah I care a lot means the world to me diversity of colours, it's good to know...
Do I care what a girl thinks of me, well if I really like her I do... but someone I just met nah, why should I...

and if I ask about your day, it's because I'd like a break from talking and want to listen, so yeah when I ask I wanna hear it...
I admit that I get really horny sometimes and then it's more like "hey, how was your day... okay screw this, fuck me!

And as for the third one, I once scared my best girly friend pretty bad (nope, I doubt you can imagine how... and I'm not going to tell) So I had to sit in her bed and hold her, she sat on my lap naked as the day she was born I had my arms around her and she had her arms around me... And I wasn't anywhere near horny, even tho she is really really hot!!
So what I'm trying to say is... nah, it doesn't matter to me at all. Ofcourse I can tell them they're hot and stuff, it's not like I'm blind but I don't have to be hitting on her all the time, because that would be really annoying...




Update: Holy fuck, did I write that much


And Jynnelle (isn't your name Jynnelle... I think it is) you can tell me about you day anytime and I'll listen...

 

lol... why don't you just bug off...

Yeah sure she's hot, the outfit is hot... but that doesn't mean she wears it all the time... Believe it or not, if you see a picture of a naked woman, that doesn't mean that she's naked all the time either....

And I don't see a slut in that picture, I just see a girl that knows she's beautiful... And what's wrong with that? I like it




Yes, I know you were just joking.... but it was a pretty lousy joke!

 

Your an awesome friend . Any girl would be happy to have you there to listen.

first of all FUCK YOU!... you really offended me asshole...
i dont think that outfit is slutty at all.. i hardly ever wear skirts, this was a RARE ocasion..


soaringeagle,kissmeimpolish,lakshen I <3 u 3. thanks for standing up for me..

 

I <3 you too

 

I take my apopogies back. You dumbshits can go fuck yourselves.

 

why'd we want your apopogies???

And I can't go fuck myself, that would be like skipping the line...

 

How many times did that guy say sorry... Get over it. He wrote something it came off the wrong way and he opologized... Guys don't think before they speak.. I say stupid things all the time