Hey all. I've known I was bi for a few years, but recently had my first real experience with a girl. It was so great! I had never seriously been with a girl before. However, I'm going crazy about it. I can't stop thinking about it. I'm so hung up on it and her now. It's a lil awkward sometimes to hang out cuz I keep thinking about it. And I wonder what she thinks. She gets pissed cuz my one other female friend likes me and I've kissed her before. I told her that it's not like that & that I'm only interested in doing anything more with her. We've been text messaging eachother on the phone a lot. She flirts with me on the text but we have never talked about it after it happened. All I know is I want it to happen again. I'm not sure how to make it not awkward or how to define the situation. So anyone with similar experiences, help me out! What should I say to her?
I wish I could help you here, but I haven't had any experience with presenting myself as a lesbian. I mean, I entered a relationship, but I had dated the girl before; so it was a different situation.
It sounds like anything you do is going to be a bit awkward, at least at first. Invite her to lunch or dinner or drinks or whatever and see what happens.
