Honestly guys.... Do you care at all?

Thanks Kingwood I<3 you man.

 

Great question, and I can't answer it on behaf of all guys, but I can for myself.

-Hell yes I care about what a girl thinks. Why shouldn't I? We're all human, why should I not care about what women think, and only care about what men think? That would just make me an asshole, and that isn't me at all.
-Of course, everyday. Here at school, I have alot of friends, and around 80% of those are girls, my best friend included. So I always ask them how they're doing, and how their days have been. Its the conciderate thing to do.
-And the above statement just answered the last part too. Of course guys and girls can be friends without sex getting in the way. I've had no desire to try to have sex with any of my friends, to me that would just be way too awkward, and I enjoy being friends with them. I don't ever want to ruin the great bonds I have with them by having sex get in the way.

I hope you find that there are in fact some great guys in the world. I do see alot of shitheads here at school, but I can tell you, great guys who actually DO care about women, exist.

 

welll some guys are just put here to ruin it for the rest of us....

but I'll tell ya'll this... Bugger off, SHE'S MINE!!!

 

[font=&quot]Do guys care about what a girl thinks at all?
Yes

Do you ever ask a girl about her day and actually WANT to hear the answer?
Yes

or do you believe that boys and girls cannot be friends because the "sex" part always gets in the way?
I would say almost always yes, if you really get along with, like and care about a person sooner or later either you will start looking at them as a potential partner or they will start to look at you that way.

To the OP, it sounds like you are running with the wrong crowd.[/font]

 

Nah, I feel the same way about a lot of blokes. And I'm a guy myself! But a lot of the time, I hang around with men and I wonder where their brains are. That's why so many of my closest friends are female.

 

well mainly because most guys lie on the internet...

 

the fact that your so good looking [and this comming from someone whos predilictions stray from white girls ] is sort of a handicap .....i try n treat all crew like people ....and realy do .....but the hot girls are always a challenge as there are just chemical -pherramonal -whatever things that happen to us advanced mammals - just try and keek your interactions on a levell that doesnt allow boys to revert to the objectifying mode theyve been trained to assume

 

i think theres no pheramonal transference across coaxial cable

 

I'm not sure I got all of that, but really why's it a problem that she's this hot?

The only problem is that many guys are just too horny...

 

yea theres a lot of girls would like ta have her ....er problems ...

 

I always try to get women to talk about themselves rather than talking about myself, and it is like pulling teeth. In my experience most women, and perhaps most people, simply aren't willing to talk about themselves, so I have to talk about myself to keep the conversation going. This makes me look insensitive and makes me feel like the other person is being secretive and guarded.

 

ahaha, if they don't talk about them selves... I talk about them

 

I see no reason why guys and girls can't just be friends. For the most part, if I ask someone about their day it's because I actually want to know. It doesn't make sense that the sex part would get in the way, I have no desire to fuck every girl I know.

 

Twenty years ago, women were constantly complaining that the only men they knew who treated them with any real respect as women were gay men.

(Sigh!) Some things never change. . .

-- Skeeter

 

I don't care about what around 2/3 of females say, just like I don't care about what 2/3 of guys say....

Sometimes when people grow up a little, and out of that teenage "the world revolves around me thing," they become worthy of a listen.

 

sounds like you're still stuck in that phase... And I don't think the world revolves around me no... I just happen to be at the center

 

ooo aggressive.

and not clever

 

Please don't bash all over me like what happened to lodog, but, in my opinion if you have to ask the op's question you must not be interacting with very many guys, or somehow you bring this type out in them. I just really don't like generalizations. It hits a nerve with me. Of course there are plenty of guys out there who do care! I actually feel sorry for you for not having the opportunity to interact with many of these "caring" guys in person.


Anyway, I'd wrather learn what makes someone else tick and hear their story before I feel the need to go on and on about mine. Only once was I told that I like to talk about myself a lot. It was on a date and the lady absolutely would not carry on a conversation. I searched far and wide for a subject that she would carry on a conversation with, to no avail. She did tell me that she just got out of a session with her psycologist though, so maybe it just wasn't a good time for her

by the way, lodog, and soaringeagle: I think you are both cool and righteous in your own ways!!!

 

i'd still like to know how your day was
umm..lonely goatherd..
i think your mane problem is you come off as a stalker..so many have told me the same stories about you & i've only been on these forums a relatively short while..& especialy when your approaching 14-15 year olds..and i;m not even going to mention your other activities whichh are borderline.. my advice to you is shut off your computer..go meet some real girls.. make some freinds..act respectable & maybe you wont have to resort to freaking people out.
other then that..it really seems theres alot of generaly pretty decent people around..i tend to make freinds easily with women becaus e i tend to talk to them right off the bat with an open heart & a genuine concern & respect..
but blah blah blah..i dont really want to be talking about me..i'd really like to know what made you choose these people as freinds?

 

im sorry.. i shoudl have read through the whole post before i got mad and quoted you...

i feel aweful now..
i accept your apology..
i hope you accept mine...