Whenever i have sex....even from a blow job i cum wayyy too quickly. Like im talkin within 1 minute the first time. However within 15 min ill be ready to go again. Each time i can last longer and longer but it is still embarrasin the first few times. I dont know wut it is...any suggestions? Also do those sprays like stud 100 work for makin u last longeR?
try to NOT be nervous. You should relax and not think too much about what you are doing. If you clear your mind you'll enjoy it more.
Come on, give him a break man. Mate I posted a similar thread only a couple of days ago as I often have the same problem. I'm pretty sure that it's all in the mind. If you're confident, happy, relaxed and really comfortable with your partner because you know you can trust them then lasting longer often follows. Of course this isn't always the case as I well know myself. A common suggestion is to have a wank about an hour or so before the time you expect you might have sex. Or a little alcohol, but not to much, can numb the senses enough to help you relax. How old are you? If you're only in your early teens early ejaculation can happen less often as you get older and as you get used to more sexual activity. Don't worry, you're not alone. It's a LOT more common than you think and there ARE ways to deal with it. I wouldn't mind knowing myself!
.... if you think youre gonna cum, pull out and wait a few secs... then resume when you've staved off the urge to cum
It's almost definitely all in the mind and mate, I know how you feel. It's the worst. Performance anxiety can make sex such an uncomfortable experience. There's nothing worse than being with a great girl and the moment you enter her you can feel things starting to churn. Another suggestion is that there are exercises to help stregthen the muscles in your dick. It's the same muscles you use to piss with, if you can flex and hold these muscles in 30 second blocks around 10 times a day it's meant to help as the muscles gain strength - allowing you to hold the semen in if you have to!
Also you can try something when you masterbate. Right before you are about to ejaculate squeeze the base of your penis to stop yourself from physically ejaculating. It gets you into the routine of stopping yourself from ejaculating when you choose to. You can read more here http://sexuality.about.com/cs/sexualtechnique/ht/multipleomen.htm
