Sister you have to love yourself, cause even if you find your soulmate you won't know it feeling the way you do. Untill your 100% whole person it won't work with anyone. Find something you love to do and do it. When your looking for love it's not there, but when your out doing something you love giving your all to that and not stressing about finding that right person, that's when the right person will show up! As for jumping in the sack with any ramdom guy thinking he's gonna call the next day, not a good idea. A guy dosen't want an easy girl, a guy thinks if you get it on with him as soon as you meet him you must be doing that with every guy you just meet. A guy want's a nice girl to take home to mom and they also like the challange of trying to go to that level. LOVE YOURSELF and it will be allright!!
is that what I have been doin wrong? have to "act" like I don't want him? scratch this ...my own personal bullshit...sorry
I hate those old, 'a guy wants this kinda girl' and 'girls only like bad boys' crap, such generalizations have never occured with any of the people I've known well. And that's why a lot of people have problems finding relationships, by treating and expecting the same things of every person of the target sex. Pay attention to people as individuals and you will find the individual that suits you.
ooh~ well anyways, I just wanted to share that the guy I spent the night with the other night is coming over tomorrow and we're gonna have dinner and what not... plus we're heading to the same fest this weekend and plan on chillin' so hopefully all goes well.. so anyways, I'm quite excited not to have been ditched~he's sweet and I think we'll get along well and be friends if nothing more I've been in need of a good hiking buddy, and a lil' lovin' on the side sounds quite appealing... well I'll let y'all know how it works out.. woo hoo, my semi-sleazy side didn't scare this one away at least and he's the best of the bunch. God, I'm such a nerd... don't mind me
