Advice and comfort needed

yea annie you did nothing wrong everyones familys has a time where things get hard espically in a death but it will be ok my best wishes

 

I don't think you are stubborn, just have a strong sense of what is justice and realise that you are worth more than this. My best wishes too

 

You probably know this already.

golden rule:
you don't have to justify yourself to anyone.

be secure in who you are and what you are about.
safe in the knowledge that you are you.

I understand the need to present the truth, the facts for them to see. To want communication and acceptance of your position.
If this is not working be careful, it can turn into a situation that takes a lot of energy from you.
To try and justify your existance to those that don't hear will drain you mentally and physically.

You are you with no need for external proof of witness to what you are. You can use the internal realisation of your chance at life, the formation of your identity from pure reason, and how you must live it. Don't let others take your energy to feed on. If they are not giving any back, if its one way, then cut it off.

Perhaps they'll come to their senses and reach out by showing understanding or empathy for you; thus giving energy back. Here is when you can recipricate and give them empathy too. In the meantime, don't decrease yourself for their gain!

All the best.

 

I was in a family relationship less abusive than this, and I walked out.

DNA means nothing - what truly matters is companionship and support. And frankly, even if they give you gobs of cash but also tons of crap, it's not worth it. I haven't spoken to my blood relatives in seven years and am none the worse for it.

 

well u already see its a bullshit guilt trip ....thats not a new or unique trick ...so let float a lot of weight off ya .....n just know whats realy goin on .....despite others trying to reify their delusions .

 

Wow, thank you for all the support everyone!

You have no idea how much it is appreciated to know that others understand where I'm coming from and acknowledge it.

You are all the best.

And yes DNA means nothing...I'm beginning to realize that.

 

i look a lot like the milkman .....