Would you still...

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by MBintheOC, Jul 15, 2005.

  1. MBintheOC

    MBintheOC We're all mad here..

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    date a guy who's married but they're more like roomates than husband & wife, he's miserable w/her because he's got no love, & he's started divorce proceedings because he wants to be w/you? One of my friends asked me this, and I said as long as he's going through w/it & not lying, then it's ok. What think you all?
     
  2. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    only after it's final and he moves out.
     
  3. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    You aren't dating and he is divorcing so he can be with you?

    Sounds odd to me. What does "not dating" involve?

    Other than that, Yeah! what Drumminmama said; once he (or she) moves out AND the paperwork is in process, I see nothing dishonorable.
     
  4. phunkymonkey

    phunkymonkey Member

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    Sounds like they are already dating if he is divorcing his wife for her.

    Too many men lie about it just to make the girl feel ok about dating a married man. They will say the divorce is just dragging on & on... or that they can't do it yet because of something that happened, but that it will be soon. But by then she will be all attached to him & not realize what it going on.
     
  5. Mr MiGu

    Mr MiGu King of the Zombies

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    as long as you know what youre getting into, and dont seriously consdier a future together
     
  6. hiro

    hiro pursue it

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    I hate when people say they are doing it for me..... because feelings change and things could go sour. If he is getting divorced because of problems with his wife then I can understand but if he is doing it to be with you then stay the fuck away.
     
  7. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    ditto...
     
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