Honestly guys.... Do you care at all?

no, you're not being a bitch to me, but you are creating a false sense that you will only continue to find true until you change your thinking. i can testify that i am not the person you are thinking of. you say no relationships, just sex. well i'll have you know that i dated a woman for a year before having sex with her because i CARED. i "gave a fuck," to put it your way. we dated for 2 years and separated only because we went to different schools. in fact, i refuse to have sex with a girl until i know her personality and become her trusted friend. without that, what's the point....

so never assume we're all the same. i agree that there are many awful guys out there and probably on the hipforums, but you must believe that there are those good ones--i KNOW there are.

peace.

 

I am sincerely not trying to be a smartass, but maybe you are overreacting a little. What you say does sound pretty typical of a lot of dating scenarios. I will agree with you that many guys are like you say, but it is a big error for you to think that most, if not all guys are like this. Pleas try to keep an open mind about guys and try not to let this preconceived notion cause you to look past someone who might really care. Stereotyping and generalizing are big evils in society. :X

Also, just because a guy your age might have crazy hormones and does want and think about sex with you that doesn't mean that he does not care about you otherwise either. Think about your PMS for a moment. It is hard for you to control your moods and emotions during this time, correct? Now relate that to a guys sex drive. It can be similarly crazy and overwhelming at times for us too!

Besides, finding the "right one" for a lifelong relationship is not easy and takes a lot of living and searching. Remember, everyone else who you meet and date are the "wrong one" so who cares what they think/want. just forget about it and move on until you find the "right one"!!!

 

I wish i could answer this for you but what i have to say has nothing to do with it.

I have seen your sig a bunch of times and i just noticed the puppy! That is a-frickin-dorable.

 

i never hang out with/ date guys my own age. all my friends are older then me. so age and Hormones have NOTHING to do with it.

the main point of this post was to point out that ALL my guy friends dont give a flying fuck about me or anyone but them selves... end of discussion.
Chicks are WAY worse though, Hence why I only have two chick friends and like 20 guy friends...

"The more people i meet, the more I love my dog".