Question for guys who have started dating a girl who was a close friend

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Kronos, Jul 21, 2005.

  1. Kronos

    Kronos Member

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    Do you find it tough to kind of forget/not think about/cope/whatever with everything you know about your girlfriend? I mean if you were friends before you got together and talked about sex and everything.

    My present gf was a really close friend. We spoke about everything. I've never ever been a jealous person before her, but with her I am. I'm having trouble dealing with people she's had sex with in the past and the things she's done with them. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do to get past it?

    There is something I've posted about before (think I did at least) that has made me not trust her fully. I'm sure that's involved somehow...
     
  2. jo_k_er_man

    jo_k_er_man TBD

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    usually.. wether she was a good friend to begin with or not... as the relationship progresses... you would've found out about this stuff anyways... so it really shouldnt matter... leave the past behind... its the present that ya need to look at
     
  3. deadonceagain

    deadonceagain mankind is a plague

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    i dated a close firend,turned into the most confusing ordeal and in the end fell apart,i use to get jealous when she would talk about this guy she liked befor we started actuly dating and where just friends,well she with you now and not them for a reason so why worry
     
  4. Lestatold

    Lestatold Member

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    I'm in your situation, but a little different:
    i don't care about de people that done things with her, and you know why? Because she loves me. I'm a little jealous... but she loves me and that's enought to me.


    Take care of you :)
     

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