I don't think I've had an orgasm

I masturbate at least once a day, using a toy. I strictly stick to clitoral stimulation. And yeah, it feels good, but the end result always feels anticlimatic and I always end up a little underwhelmed.

I know they say "you'll know if you have one," but I honestly don't know if this is it, or if I've just been expecting far too much.

 

yeaaaa.. u'll know when u have one..

ok but anyway, try doing it less often.. i mean, wait for like a week without doing anything. the more u wait, the more intense the orgasm can get..

 

(oh u could also ask for someone to help.

but um, i guess u should be able to reach climax on your own)

 

hmmm.. well wheni was younger and my hormones were firing up and i masterbating alot, i found that it took my ages to orgasm.. now i get my stimulation from my boyfriend and i orgasm better and more intense because its occasional...

maybe your body needs a rest?

 

I did try that once...I went exactly a week, actually. It took a bit longer to get to the point where I usually stop, but it still wasn't much different from usual.

 

i've never had one... but it's not really a problem for me.. not yet at least

 

i say give it more time, dont panic. it'll become an issue if u never had an orgasm at say, age 20?

 

I definatly saw give it a little rest... Let your energy store up... Youll know when you have one though

 

ive found that the more you worry about having an orgasum, the harder it is to have one.

 

Edit: Nevermind

 

haha at first i thought u were the person who started the thread, so i was gonna say "so u had one in the end?"

 

I fake em

 

but the question is, do u still enjoy them?

 

of course...I consider it theater and I live for the theater. Its even better with an audience using opera glasses....

 

ok..heres a suggestion from the only guy whos posted here.. you say you reach a certain point..& then stop..& its anticlimatic?
well i do agree maybe not doing it every day is a good thing.. but after a few days (3-4 should be ok) stick with it..past that point..as it builds you may feel like its too much & youy cant take anymore & want to stop.. but if you just ride it througfh..it will keep building to that climax..the female orgasm is a tricky thing.. i've met women in theyre 30'3 & even early 40'3 who had never had one.. but even those who had never had 1..only a smal percentage were for 1 medical reason or another were incapable of having one.. with the proper care & touch..almost any is capable of multiple orgasms
now you said you use a toy & ony clitoral stimulation? is that cause your a virgin? if so.. why worry about orgasms now? wouldnt it be wonderful to have your first orgasm the 1st time you made love?
if your not sa virgin.. like i said the female orgadm isa very tricky thing to acheive sometimes.. some women only get thetre through clitoral stimulation..others penetration.. others require a bit of both..thers even a few who can get thee almost instantly with just allittle teasing of....umm..other areas..teehee.. but the reality is.. the biggest & most sensative eroginouse zone you have...s your mind.. & if your mind resists, you may never get there..but with allittle erotic fantasizing, & learning exactly what your bodyy requires to get you there..you should be able to get there everytime\

i hope this helps..& doesnt come off as being creepy..

 

i think its rhode island ....drive to mass or conn and wank ....i think theres a curse on fun put on your blessed state by the indians or the fish or sompin

 

hahaha only you could come up with that
but maybe its more like ..you need to be facing east.. your big toe has to be lined up perfectly with alpha centuri (therefore u must be outside under the stars)
you need to have an oak leaf stuck yto your left butt cheek, .. don't start untill you haveat least 2 mosguito bites/....if the air temperature is exactly 76 degrees & humidity between 56% & 64% & the wind is from nw at 5-7mph you'llsacheive orgasm as soon as you swallw a fly accidentaly
but makno in your usual way you might have given a slight flash of wisdom if someones payin attention enough t try to fgure out what the heck your talking about..
i think just a lil stimulation..in your environment.. can help.. where are u when u usualy try? is there other sensory stimuli? music..scent..beauty.well odviosly the visual stimulation of an attractive body or ..well porn.. might be useful if your really having trouble..but porn for women ..isnt aseasy as for men...aman can watch a scene & just think ohh i really want to livk that..& a woman can watch the same exact scene & just think ewww who would ever want to be licked like that? its funny how porn stars..or maybe directors.. seem to be clueless about how most women preffer to be touched..lol admitedly i dont sit around for hours watching porn so cant say its all like that..but its sortsa unavoidable to watch some..& mostly i think theyre more funny then anythimg..
well..i'm babbling again..damn sleep deprivation..
ok..next time you masterbate.. (wait a few days..) make a special night of it..if theres someonewhjo really turns u on..get somestimulation from him/her light candles..incence.. some music to enhance the mood..& just plan on taking it further then u had before....lol never thought i'd be an orgasm coach..ool maybea chearleader.. go team go..yu can do it..lol
i hope this freindly advice helps..
i'll be honnest.. my first time i had someone show me the way (well she did it for me, then i figured out i could do thesame on my own..lol)

 

Try resting. Umm... Like they say, No one knows your body better then you do, So I think I just have to say, experiment with your hands or try another method. Just don't tear yourself up.. Hmm... Try thinking about something that turns you on, that always helpss

 

lmao!! I really enjoyed reading that response, lol. You're right about porn though...I've watched very little that was actually arousing or even enjoyable in the least. Well, this one came close to being arousing, but the background music wasn't very tasteful and just played the same 10-second segment over and over, and that really wrecked it all completely for me. --"

Oh well though. Real life beats the movies anyhow.

 

comming from a dude.. are you ready for this.. there is a g-spot and ill let u know if it will work for you.. ok about 2 inches in and on the top wall you will feel a knot ( a small lump).. apply constant pressure to it and message. better if you get someone else to do it while licking your clit.. but besides that.. it may make you feel like you have to pee but after about 30 seconds or so, the pee feeling will go away. if it goes away then keep messageing that area and you will reach a back arching, leg shakeing,tow curleing orgasim. but bad news for you if you always feel like you have to pee when messageing it.. dont know if there is a exercise fix for it, ive never been with a female that had that problem. but once i do find a chic with that problem i will be getting my gloves on and playing doctor.