do you think some poeple are bron to be alone

do you think some people are born to be alone???

 

no, that's their decision to be alone.

 

agree

 

yeah i seen it that way as well.... do you think even if the person is saying i want this and that as in family kids, husband ,wife but then given the chance to go out and meet people and then refuses and says there not my type are they just runnug away

 

don't know if they're running away.. maybe..
some people just think like "oh, i'm gonna be alone forever so why bother going out.." you know..

did that make sense?

 

I doubt people are born to be alone. Just it takes time to find someone. You will go through many mate(s) in your life, I believe there is someone out there for everyone....give it time.

 

yeah, i don't think people are really born to be anything.. it's just how they choose to live their life

 

Yeah i guess......sara-rose it does makes sense i know what your trying to say and realtionships take time and i'll have many mates befroe we find anything speacial but are we suppose to be scared of not having anyone and honestly i am i have grown up andall my friends have been in realationships for 6 years and i have never had one am i weird

 

Yes I do. Some people are born loners. I'm not talking about society's skewed psychopathic killer definition either, but normal people who prefer to be alone and couldn't be happier that way.

 

you're not weird at all! you're only 20 years old.. you've got your whole life in head of you.. there's plenty of time to find that special someone. and i mean, maybe you'll find him this year, or next.. maybe when you're 60! but hey, don't you think it'll be worth the wait?

 

could just be the more people find it that its harder to find someone to be with then others. And most of the time the one you think you are born to be with ends up not being right for you at all.


it will just take time

 

Yes. I certinately believe some people are just born to be "loners". Not that they'll be totally alone, but they will limit themselves to people. Maybe because they'd rather have deeper relationships, etc.

 

yeah it will be complelty worth the wait and i guess if i concintrated on what i want and how i want to think instead of caring whats going on in other peoples lives maybe i wouldn't feel so wierd about it cos i wouldn't comparing myself to them would i thanks heaps guys your the best

 

don't mention it, we're here to help *hugs*

 

For once i actually 100% agree with you

 

I think the band Whitesnake has already settled this.

 

I dunno about born to be alone, I've never seen a baby reject all human contact...but there are plenty of us adults who see no facination in joining society *shrugs*

 

yea some people chose to be by themselves so its their fault for not communicating with society....its kinda sad to tthink about being alone all the time...it would suck...but some people might be happy with being alone so i dont know
peace

 

in my opinion​

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Eventhough i have not lived much i think life is full of chioces what ever the situation they have allowed themselves to get in. So how the choice is made depends on the indivual even if they decide to follow what someone has told them to do.

So when answering this tread i would say that it would be up to the parson if they decide to be alone.

 

the person who judges their partners as 'not the one' will never meet the 'one' caus you dont know who that is unless you have other relationships to relate it to. you need to meet people in order to work out which ones you get along with best. you also need to have deep relationships in order to know when it's ideal