Okay, my situation is, the guy I'm seeing is on his way over here in a little while and last time we had sex.. well he's a bit big and I'm kinda scared of his penis a little cause it doesn't really fit well (he only got it in when he was halfway soft but it would just bend and hurt both of us). When I get nervous I get really dry (which I've never had a problem with). Him coming over was kind of spontaneous and I haven't been out to get some KY.. anything I can use of in place of KY that might be laying around my house that I just haven't thought of?
yeah you can use saliva. that is the body's natural lube, me and my man use saliva when we have nothin else in hand.
for the benefit of both of you, it would be better for him not to stick it in until you are turned on anyway, otherwise it will hit your cervix (sp). try fooling around before so that you are wet, I have found that works the best, I've never had the need of lube.
See, I haven't really run into this problem. Normally I'm so wet that I soak the bed.. he does turn me on before hand.. it's like the minute he inserts anything I go dry again.
oils or vaseline, but only if you aren't using condoms. Just tell him that if he wants to be with you, he needs to go find some good lube, and you'll have a nice treat for him when he gets back (be naked or in lingerie or something)
