yep, i'm tired of the whole relationship deal. I just can't be bothered anymore. if i like someone, i wont make any effort to let them know that i like them cos i just know it will eventually end with me being the one that is left heartbroken....thats the pattern that all my past relationships have followed. however, now i feel i dont deserve any of that shit anymore and i just cant be bothered to look for anything right now. I guess i just had enough heartbreak for the time i've been dating people. I just dont believe it is possible to find what i really want. so i've given up on the whole thing. I put myself in the case i meet someone evetually, i know for a fact i wont be able to reciprocate if they actually have sincere feelings for me. I feel a bit sad about this, but i guess i've become more skeptical about other people's real feelings. I'm not looking for any advise, just wanted to vent....and hopefully someone who feels in a similar way could give me some comments or whatever. so yeah...
I know how you feel... I'm exhausted... my relationship has me exhausted... its all give give give.. and it started off that I wasnt even interested in him at all... and now I'm doing all the work and i'm so tired....
/\ so what makes you stay around? are you happy like that? you see, thats why i feel relationships are a bit too much of a hassle. it seems like too much work and sometimes its not even worth it. I dont think it should be like that, but we're too complex, we cant have a relationship without the drama...and i'm tired of the drama.
relationships arent necessarily easy. my ex was convinced they should be. they don't need to be a constant struggle, but until you reach that completely comfertable phase there are going to be difficulties of getting to know someone intimately and discovering more out about yourself. 2 different people arent going to see eye to eye all the time. that would be wonderful, but its not realistic.
I hear ya...I was tired of looking for relationships because I always got heartbroken. I decided that if love was going to find me it would. That was a long four year wait but the girl of my dreams did come around. If something is going to happen then let it happen but don't go out looking for it...you will just get yourself hurt.
The thing about relationships is they aren't easy and they are ALOT of work even if it is a friend. You have to decide if you want to do this anymore and if it is worth it... after that (it is a hard to think about) then you can really decide how you want things to be either with him/her or without him/her. Things happen for a reason but you need to let yourself on the right path.
I agree with giving up on looking. I've recently made that choice as well after being burnt too badly one too many times. It's not worth the pain,life could be so much better without needing someone who'll just let you down in the end.
