I've only had sex twice, both with the same person, and each time I didn't last any longer than 5 minutes. Is there anything I can do to make sure I last longer next time?
Masterbate before sex, It makes it so it takes you sometime to "Refill" As it were If that does'nt help much you could always try just more foreplay, Though you'd probably still last as long from the exitment, The foreplay would make you both feel it lasted a lot longer. Hope this helps Happy fucking!
I don't want my girlfriend to end up getting bored with me though, I'm guessing it's going to get really annoying for her after a few more times...
Give her a lot of foreplay... give her oral and get her off before you even get your cock in her. Then she can't complain too much.
She's got this weird anti-oral thing though, she just thinks it's disgusting. I asked her if I could one day and she just made a face and a noise that sounded alot like "eugh"...or something to that effect...
Ah......well, I suppose you could mentally picture David Hasslehoff or recite the lords prayer or summit.....mebbe that'll help delay wot needs delaying
Haha, maybe that'll work...guess I'll try it next time, although picturing david haselhoff might just make me go soft.
hmm... would she be into using a dildo or vibrator prior to intercourse? The key is to get her off first at least once then you can bang one out for yourself. In time you'll get used to her and last longer.
in addition to the other advice, it might be good to start masturbating on a more regular basis. sometime when you're "new to sex" your little man will prematurely ejaculate the first few times...disregard this advice if you already do masturbate on a regular basis...
I dunno...she doesn't really masturbate much either...I guess I'll just have to wait 'till she gets back from camp and see what happens when I go to her house...maybe at the right time in the right situation she could just sort of forget about her whole anti-oral thing...
and this one time at bandcamp........ jk i suppose practise makes perfect, do lots of foreplay e.g kiss her neck for a few minutes. see what she likes and dislikes.
Five minutes isn't that bad for a beginner. Even some older dudes don't even make it that far though at their age they don't really have an excuse. Masturbation as stated above will not only empty out your pipes a little, but practice enables you to gain greater control. If you really want to go all out try some Kegel exercises if you can stand it. Finally, what's stopping you from just putting on another condom? As a teenager with a naked chick in your bed you shouldn't have much trouble getting it up again, and you will definately last longer the more consecutive orgasms you have.
i dont know if i'd really recommend masturbating before. the night before, yes, but lasting during sex isn't about how much sperm you have in you, it's about stamina and sexual energy. if you've already cum and realeased all the sexual energy in you, it doesn't make sense to expect to be a better partner the second time around. instead of using up your energy and depleting your sperm supply, why not try to just become more in control of your body? some people say excersising is a good way to go about doing this, but to me its largely a psychological thing. you want to be full of energy and confident in yourself. also, don't be nervous, if that plays into it; you have to be comfortable with her and her with you. the thing is, if you've only had sex 2 times, ever, it's not such a bad thing that you can't last long. you have no experience with it, but like some of the other people on this thread have said--you can make up for that by giving her orgasms other ways. you also don't have to have oral sex. if it's passionate enough between you two at the time, try kissing and touching her all over, and then fingering her. if she has an orgasm, especially at this point, it's already ok if you do too, so sex doesn't need to last more than 5 minutes. that actually might be the perfect amount of time for her to get into it again just enough to enjoy it when you cum and she has all that energy left that didn't get spent in a second orgasm. then as you have sex more and get more experience with it, you can learn to last longer over time.
