so my mom decided to search my car, cuz she somehow knew i had weed in it, and i ran out to try and stop her, and i grabbed my pouch, took my bowl without her seeing somehow, and showed her i was throwing the bag down the sewer. I fucking hate parents. I got her to admit that she smoked pot more than just trying it, but she just doesnt care. She say's im ruining my life, but I only smoke like once per week. I hate this shit
oh and she says i need to see a counselor cuz my life is so screwed up. I dont get how my life is so screwed up. I'm an a- student, active and very successful in school sports and other afterschool activities. fuck parents
If she does end up making you see a counselor, your lack of deviancy (is that a word?) should be reflected to them. Of course, they will tell you 0mgz0Rz teh w33d 15 b4d 4 u!!!1111 and probably try to make you quit, but as long as you can fool them it ought not be bad. Or maybe it's an empty threat on your mom's part, and if you tread lightly for the next few weeks she'll shut the hell up? Does she do that sometimes?
i dunno i told her yeah ill see a counselor. She really feels i have a problem. She says I'm at a very high risk for addiction because my uncle was a heroin addict. Whatever I'm gonna keep tokin i dont care
ok well shes a bitch... just keep the grades and sports goin well... and if she honestly thinks u are doing harder drugs then tell her to go to cvs and buy a coke/heroin/nething else she thinks ur doin drug test
i dunno today after we both calmed down a bit, she said it was okay if i smoked a bit, as long as i didnt have it in my car or the house, and i said i understood why she was mad, again This is my second time being caught by her in 6 months. My mom sure must know the hiding spots well...haha
well here is an update...i got off so easily. I'm not grounded, and i dont lose my car, nor do i have to go to a counselor. I just have to "change my lifestyle" which means i pretty much have to keep my room clean, run more, and spend time with my family. SWEET
its been scientifically proven that addiction runs in families. therefore children of addicts are much more likely to become addicts themselves, even if to a different drug, ( a father may be an alcoholic while a son may be a cokehead) weed is addicting, so is sex and probably popcorn, who knows, its all about your mind, my entire family has been addicted to something but are all in recovery right now, except my father who sent me a bubbler for my birthday, lol,but i know that the malfuntion in the brain that makes you feel the need for things in such an intense way as addiction has been passed down to me, i really wouldnt want to quit smoking weed, am i addicted to weed? hard to say i dont think i could fully grasp the concept of addction, but the way i look at it is that if you are happy with your life and who you are then you dont have a problem, i highly doubt your ruining you life in any way,
that's not asking too much you live under her roof and until you can support yourself and your own habit, you should respect her wishes. If you get busted, she gets in trouble too. I'm not saying you should quit smoking, nor do I agree with your mom- but until you move out, you should smoke outside the home and respect your mom's wishes. Really, what's wrong with focusing on being athletic, being clean and spending time with your family?
Bad advice. If he gets caught outside, its by the cops. If hes caught inside, its by his mom. Eather way, the parents will know, but if you smoke inside, you don't go to jail.
you think if you don't smoke outside you don't go to jail? you have a lot of growing up to do. I don't mean that in a mean way, but you're young and can't see things from a more mature point of view. You're telling him to risk his parents to keep his ass out of trouble. His parents would be in 10X more trouble if the cops found that this kid was smoking at home than just him sneaking around outside. You're also saying that at 17, he shoudl be more worried about how often he can smoke weed, than being healthy and fit, and spending time with his family. I think that's quite selfish. Weed is nice, but it should never be a number 1 priority. Especially not over family! As for the concept of addiction, it's learned behavior that is the passing of having an addictive personality. It's not a malfunction in the brain, it's not genetic. Yes, addictive qualities run in families, but only because it's learned behavior. Two sons of an alcoholic, one living with his dad, the other with his mom across the country: only the son that watched his parent fill voids with substances learned to do the same. The son who watched his mother deal with life and take it as it comes along learned to do the same. People have blamed "genetics" on thier being prone to addiction way too long. Even if it's a learned behavior, and you are likely to have an addictive personality, it's up to each individual to be in control of thier lives.
