Would you ever go out with someone that's transgendered? What about pre-op, or post? What would you do if a new love turned out to want to be a different sex? Would you leave them right away?
It's all about honesty and trust with me these days. So if I was really into someone and they came out and told me -- that'd be no problem. But if I found out some other way, I think I'd be kind of hurt. I guess it might/must be hard for someone to be open about that kind of stuff, but I've been lied to too many times to play those kinds of games. I'm capable of loving anyone -- man, woman, ect. -- but they have to be honest and open with me. Else it's just not love. Ganja_Goo
I like to think that if I could see the dishonesty as rising out of an understandable fear of my reaction and it was the only dishonesty in the relationship I could write it off as understandable in today's society. Also there's the question of is there a lie at all since as I understand it unlike gays transgendereds (male to female) really feel and believe in their hearts that they are women.
That's right. Ranger. I don't really understand it though. I like to think that I'd be just as happy as a man as a women. But maybe I wouldn't say that if i really swapped bodies.
That's a reall excellent point, Ranger, I didn't think of it like that at all. Thanks, Megan. Yea, I agree with you totally. I mean, I'd like to think that whether I had or didn't have a penis, I'd be just as happy -- but who am I to judge others? I can't even begin to imagine what those poor folks must go through. Much love, Ganja_Goo
