Guys, do you wish your women were more rough? I often here my male friends complaining that they don't get shoved back into the bed enough and have their girl take control.
Sometimes. My current girlfriend is rather submissive, but ever so often I do get the feeling she'd fancy being in control -- I just don't think she's quite comfortable with it yet. But we're experimenting I have to admit, the idea of having aggressive sex with someone who was being just as "rough" back, is totally a turn on.
sex is a game of two (or more) players......no fun if half the team is lying there like a sack of potatoes *shrugs*
I've been too submissive in bed for every guy ive been. I'm just uncomftrable with being the initiator.
From a guy's (this guy anyway, hehe) perspective.. I would try getting your mate to let you tie them up, you know, handcuffs, scarfs, whatever floats your goat. I can't speak for everyone obviously, but my girlfriend is also very timid, but she did start to get a lot more aggressive when we tried that. ::shrug:: Worth a shot perhaps, Ganja_Goo
I'm only passive in the beginning but after I warm up to a partner in a sexual manner, I'd be willing to bet I'd do ALMOST anything and even be the aggressor. My freshman year of high school I got in-house detention all day for pushing my bf up against a wall and making out with him/groping him in the hall.
wow what a coincidence, i got saturday work my sophomore year for doing the same thing.......i think the teacher was just jealous because he didn't get any although, most of the time i like being dominated....
I think to some extent being submissive all the time can be a little selfish. It gets tiring having to instigate everything, every time, day in and out. Everyone loves being paid attention to and not having to do the work sometimes.
