We have all heard about altered states of consciousness through hypnotism, drugs, sleep deprivation, fasting, meditation, etc. But, hardly does anyone talk or examine the state of "horny". I mean really...think about it. Humans do some strange ass things during sex and foreplay. For instance: Redundancy- Saying things over and over that you wouldn't say or say as much during a normal conversation. I have had sex with girls who would say "Yeah, yeah or yes, yes, yes..." about 27 times in a row. If this were to happen in a normal conversation, you'd think she'd gone mad. Or what about the Q & A segment in sex. The guy says (already fucking the girl) "You want me to fuck you? Huh? Huh?" and the girl responds..."Yeah, fuck me, baby...that's what I want FUCK ME!!" Seriously, the redundancy of this "conversation" in non-sexual conversation would sound utterly ridiculous. But, during sex...it turns you on! Which brings me to another example: Inverted Thoughts- Most people, even the oddest, don't really like being spat upon or slapped. Yet, during sex, some people like to experience things that they normally wouldn't or would be repulsed at in normal, everyday existence. Things such as (giving and/or receiving) mouth spitting, face spitting, licking assholes, licking armpits, licking feet and sucking toes, being slapped, spanked or scratched, shoved, pulled, pushed, talked to in a humiliating fashion, being trampled, wearing underwear of the opposite sex or on one's head, being kicked or feeling pain, being humiliated in some form, cuckolding, incest, face or mouth pissing, scat play, even roman showers...etc. Some even go so far as to sexually molest animals or corpses. These thoughts while not normally held are embraced in sex by many, many people from all circles, economic backgrounds, religious backgrounds, etc. Some even like the idea of sex being withheld. Aggressive Energy - Some people, such as myself, often release an aggressive-type of sexual energy during sex (especially at the point of orgasm). This is a primitive, animalistic nature that you can witness in sex of other beasts...but it is well worth mentioning I think anyhow, seeing as to how it can contribute to some of the above mentioned acts. Lastly, I want to talk about Sex Dreams. Last night I had three different sexual dreams: One was an interracial dream where I had sex with a black woman, one was were I had oral sex with a cousin, and the last one was where I walked in on my girl getting fucked by another man. Now, needless to say, only dream #1 is a likely reality, but dreams mixed with sex can create some interesting and repulsive adventures. My advice: Don't be repulsed by them, enjoy them. They are just dreams that have offered you a new sexual path without the consequences you may suffer in reality. In dreams you can fuck anyone of any background or any race or sex. You can experience interracial sex, gay sex, incest, and other taboos (even if you don't like them and would NEVER do them in reality). It is an adventure that bears NO consequence other than the one you may punish yourself with. The Table Is Open For Discussion...
wow. you've got me thinking about a lot of issues. its funny how being horny seems to change your feelings towards everything like being slapped etc.
Well, for instance, I am in no way attracted to weiners. Now, I don't mind watching a chick suck one, but I wouldn't do it because it does nothing for me (I already know that). However, I've tried some things which spurred my interest but I was unsure of and 9 times out of 10, I loved it and continue to do it with my sexual partner.
I agree. I am for sexual liberation. People ought to be able to choose who they want to be with--without ridicule and regulations.
okay how about incest? or fucking/sucking animals? or well... a bajillion other things... i definitely see "horny" as being a very altered state of mind. i have masturbated to things that got me off and then felt guilty about it afterwards, but my god was it a turn on while i was horny. taboo things seem to attract me, things that are "odd" but not too odd... i don't get off to everything and anything, but there are things i find very arousing while i'm already getting aroused, that i would never actually participate in in normal life. then again, i have done things while horny and coaxed by somebody else just a little bit and then felt bad afterwards.
I am right there with ya, tiger. Only I have now gotten over the guilt mostly because I recognize this is part of who I am and I feel comfortable with it.