can it get better?? or heres a better one will it get better?

Ok i think i posted some of this in with another, but felt like i should just post it on here to and see if i cant get any advice, well ive been dating this gal for quite some time, and i ve been doing some traveling, a freind of mine was in a hospital so i hicthed up here to vist it, i stayed a bit longer then i was supposed to, and my soon to be wife was supposed to come and get me, then she gets in a car accdent or so she claims, well last night i was doing a tarot reading, and it came up that shes not been faithful to me, so i thought i would just call her and find out for sure, why burn extra miles hitching for nothing u know, well any way i call her and asked her if there was anything wrong or if she needed to tell me anything, she then said how did i know, so then i therefore assumed she was talking about the her being unfaithful and i asked her why? and all she could say and this is what hurt me she said she has been cheating on me ever sicne the start, and that she does not love me, the only reason why she said she loves me was so she would get a ring, well she got a ring, and now i have a broken heart again, sorry this is to long, its just on my chest and i need adivce, it came to the point where a freind of mine had to take away my blade i was cutting my self, so i just need advice right now thanks

 

Sorry it ended that way. Broken hearts suck. At least it happened before you were married with kids.

Most of us have gone through some type of betrayal by a loved one. It hurts but the pain will lesson with time.

You are young and there are a bunch of beautiful women out there. You'll find a good one someday. (though don't jump into a rebound relationship right away)

Peace

 

Do you care about the ring?


I'd hitch out there like you planned, tell her you want to look at the ring or something and then pocket that biatch and move on...


I'm sorry she's hurt you, but those kinds of wounds heal if you want them to.

Don't waste your time on people who don't appriciate you.

 

there's nothing much i can do to help, but i just want to show my suport *hugs*

 

thanks for the support and advice, i dont know what iam gonna do right now, iam trying to make my way to the gathering in cali, but probally wont make it on time, but thanks again for the adice

peace and love

and *hugs back*

 

what a bitch..
I'm mean to do all that for a ring, not only is she a bitch but she is a materialistic bitch and you are way better off now. I know it hurts and your trust with people have probably changed, but she was a bad apple and not every apple is bad..
Good luck..

 

damn straight...took the words right outa my mouth.

 

thanks for the support, it really means alot