Lonely and confused...

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Eruna, Aug 3, 2005.

  1. Eruna

    Eruna Member

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    well, here it is....ive been with my bf for about three years this year, and im thinking i dont want to be in a relationship....i dont want one dick for the rest of my life....i find myself getting really REALLY turned on by some of his friends.....i want to go out and do what i want you know? man, i just need to meet new people.....but fuck its hard. i dont even have any friends anymore, he drove them all away, it sucks :( i need a new cock, lol
     
  2. guitarslinger

    guitarslinger Schwa

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    Well, then do it.
     
  3. 10us

    10us Member

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    Well try some datingsites, they just want to date just like you!

    try www.date.com or friendsfinder.com or www.freewebcamsex.tk if you are really desperate.

    the last is still my favorit!
     
  4. oblivion

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    im feeling very much like you in my relationship, except ive been with him 6yrs and we have a 5yr old daughter. I find that im staying because of her more than anything else. I still love him, but im so bored of the sex and it freaks me out imagining being with him forever. And i do find myself really fancying some of his friends. I have no idea what im gonna do about this yet.
     
  5. Hacker

    Hacker Vescere Bracis Meis

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    Do the guy a favor and break it off asap. You'll both regret it more the longer you wait.
     
  6. TundraLotus

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    if you feel like he drove most of your friends away,
    i think its a good bet to walk away. if i were in your shoes, and i sort of have been (though the sex was blazing, i needed to move on out of the emotional/ect part of the relationship), i'd move on out of there.

    also, if you care about him or want to attempt to stay friends, and since you'd be the one breaking it off and he prolly won't be thrilled with this first of all, it wouldn't hurt not to pounce on one of his friends right away. but if hes a jerk or something, well.. . hehehe

    good luck
     
  7. parnell

    parnell Member

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    Have you at least told him you are bored of the sex ?
     
  8. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    you are only 17...you should go live and explore....
    if you are feeling this way, tell him....see if you can have time to see other people....and see his reaction...
    if you talk to him at least you can make a decision based on combined understanding and not just assumptions
     
  9. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    i wouldnt exactly say yaknow what..i'm bored with our sexlife..lol but ya can put it a bit nicer & just say youve been with him a long time since you ewere pretty young (guessing he was yuour 1st & only?) & just tell him u want to take some time to explore what else life has to offer.. from what u say he sounds like an overly jealous jerk..& thats reason enough to escape..if he chases away your freinds.. run & dont look back
    umm i'd ignore the guys suggestion to try thos dating sites.. maybe if u were older & very desprate.. a sweet young girl like u wouldnt be alone long..probly no even a week..
    good luck
     
  10. shadowd_dreamr

    shadowd_dreamr Senior Member

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    your only 17...
    you have your whole life ahead of you hun..
    dump him... who cares! you'll laugh about it later.
     
  11. horror83

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    just say we need alittle time apart give it a month or so and then if your still not happy go your sepreate ways
     
  12. AcousticPeace

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    yea well if he drove all your friends away he doesnt even sound like its worth being with him so i say u go enjoy findin some new friends..and get some new guys in ur life
     
  13. MrCowboy

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    OH YEA! Do that. Sex, sex, sex, horny passionate sex, have 1000 children with 1000 different boyfriends like oblivion. And then found 1001, 1002 and so on and when you are 70 years old find 500.001 and have another baby artificially. Sex until you die.

    You will never be happy in a relationship if you are looking just for sex, and you can't stop, not even if you are 30 or 50 years old.
     
  14. Eruna

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    actualy, i took his virginity. i had already been with three people before him, and i was his first. thats another factor, he is close to me and all. plus im not for SURE that it was him that drove them away, or just the fact that i spent most of my time with him.

    i need space, and i keep telling him that, but i dont wanna break it off all together because i dont think hell understand the whole " i wanna see otehr people for a little while and see how it goes" kinda thing, and i know its bad, but i have become a part of his family, and ive made friends with them, uncles and step brothers and sisters, and man i dont wanna see all of that go.

    and no i havent talked to him about our sex life. hes been asking me latelyand i dont know what to say thats not too mean. cus if i just flat otu say, im boered and you dont turn me on anymore, its gonna lead to a horrible break up. and i dont know......man, i guess i need to just tell him that im not sure what i want, and that i wanna try living alone and meeting other guys for awhile cause the thought of spending the res of my lif ewith him is not something i see realisticly. i wanna be friends you know, but over time, i know we cant just break up and become "just friends" lol

    man, im feeling so depressed lately, its like i am watching myself sink down lower each day. im thinking its because of the sameness in my life, and the craving to go out and explore the world is just locked up inside trying to get free. but i end up smoking and drinking every day all day and end up doing again and arguing again over whether or not i can stay at my house alone this night and shit. blah, i just cant see the way, man.
     
  15. MrCowboy

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    and you think that by changing dick your depression and drinking problem would go away. perhaps for a few months and than you'll need another dick and another and another...
     
  16. Eruna

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    well, no, but i still need a new dick, along with friends and try to find happiness, plus the only reason i have a drinking problem is becaus ehe gets it every night, and i thinik its becaus ehe wants ot find a way to keep me over there, agh....if i didnt se him i woudnt be smoking or drinking for awhile.
     
  17. MrCowboy

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    but this guy is not your problem basically. i think. if not with him, you would be unhappy with someone else. it would be better if you would find a permanent solution to your problem and not just a quick fix. ask yourself what makes you happy. random sex is probably not the solution.
     
  18. adameistervousier

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    if you say you love the man then teach him to keep you in his left pocket, the perfect cure for boring sex is the slogan "think outside the box" tell him what you want and train that slug.
     
  19. adameistervousier

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    by the way fifteen year olds know nothing about relationship issues they just started dating so skip the jail-bait posts
     
  20. outlaw immortal

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    haha, nice one. you'd have to be pretty damn desperate.

    i'm more concerned about how you know so much about www.freewebcamsex.tk:H hmmm, something smells fishy. jk

    oh well i suppose the internet is 99% porn and most of the rest is just lies.
     

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