Making love or having sex?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by ZePpeLinA, Jun 29, 2004.

  1. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    There's a great difference between the two. Both involve the same physical kind of contact but with different levels of emotional attachment and feelings...Which one do you prefer?
     
  2. Miss_Tambourine_Girl

    Miss_Tambourine_Girl Member

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  3. drewbee

    drewbee Member

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    making love. Sex is boring.
     
  4. scarlettchasingroses

    scarlettchasingroses strawberry tart

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    i prefer having sex with someone i love......


    "making love" just isn't the kind of a term i use.....
     
  5. cherryiceangel

    cherryiceangel Member

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    Exactly!

    Making love, always sounds so boring to me. I always picture that to be like guy on top of girl and slow paced...I like different positions and different paces...but it always better with someone that you have "real(?)" feelings for.
     
  6. Miss_Tambourine_Girl

    Miss_Tambourine_Girl Member

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    whaaaaaat?????
     
  7. dawn_sky

    dawn_sky Senior Member

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    I prefer fucking the man I love. "Having sex" just sounds so mechanical...
     
  8. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    Making love to a man I'm in love with would be ideal. But since I'm not in love with anyone, having sex is pretty great too. ;)
     
  9. walkoflife

    walkoflife Some Assembly Required

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    Yeah, 'fucking' is so much more animalistic and natural. Especially when you have a hold of your woman's ass, holding it up as you proceed to thrust and thrust to the big 'O'

    I know...too graphic. But what can I say?
     
  10. xthevalkyriex

    xthevalkyriex Member

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    My boyfriend and I usually start out "making love"...but when we both get real into it and are on the verge of cumming, it turns into plain-ole fucking. :D
     
  11. God

    God Member

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    I wouldn't know, I've yet to find a decent girl around these hear parts (puts on a redneck accent)
     
  12. moon_flower

    moon_flower Banned

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    Fucking.

    Sex is mediocre, and making love is only good when you have someone that REALLY knows how to work it.
     
  13. WayfaringStranger

    WayfaringStranger Corporate Slave #34

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    i know im gonna lose alot of points with the ladies on this one, but its gotta be makin love for me. nothing else will do. i can rock a head board and make any woman cum, but if its not makin love, then im not doin it. alot of people are afraid of the emotions involved in love making, but for me they are the best part, and no matter how many contraceptives are being used, i cant be with a woman unless i can see me raising a child with her. i like hittin it hard and bein kinky and rough, but its always love making with me, mindless sex is for people who dont have minds and as stated above, is boring.
     
  14. LillyWhite03

    LillyWhite03 Member

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    Ohh my...how could you loose points for that. You are one of the few beautiful men left out there. Sex is sex, but if you are making love to someone it is so much more intense and gratifying. To many people are afraid of any type of emotional ties. You can make love and still go at it like animals.
     
  15. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    I'm going to have to go along with those who have said having sex with someone I love.
     
  16. BuffaloSoldier

    BuffaloSoldier Member

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    making love is what my girlfriend does when i fuck her
     
  17. sag aloo

    sag aloo Member

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    lol yeah I think u hit the nail on the head for most people!! love & sex r totally different - Luv me gal to bits but all my cock wants is a dirty nasty fuck
     
  18. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    it depends on the mood that me n my gf are in. If we are in a very romantic or mellow mood, we usually make very,very passionate love. After about 5 minutes or so(prolly not even that long), it turns to hard core fucking the shit out of eachother sex. Most of the time tho we just head straight to the ladder, like if we are really horny and are egging eachother's horniness on, and if we are high or drunk.
     
  19. God

    God Member

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    i'd much rather make love, because fucking is just like an animalistic evolutionary action. making love is what separates human beings from animals.
     
  20. cherryiceangel

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    It's actually our brain that separates us from animals...youd think God would know that. I knew there was a reason I didnt believe in him.
     
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