how long does it take you to come

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by nozzy, Aug 8, 2005.

  1. nozzy

    nozzy Member

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    having sex, girls and boys, 5 mins for me max i wanna last longer
     
  2. lakshen

    lakshen Forn Siðr

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    somewhere between 20 and ? minutes... Depends on so many things. Sometimes I can't cum at all, but I don't really care all that much, for me it's much more important making the girl cum than cumming myself, it looks awesome when a girl get an orgasm :D
     
  3. Jorma's Branches

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    Somewhere around twenty minutes. Lakshen's right, it's more about making the girl orgasm than handling yourself. I'm afraid I don't have much room to talk though, since I've only been with guys :(. Theoretically though, it's about making the girl reach orgasm.
     
  4. wiggy

    wiggy Bitch

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    depends on what im doing and who im doing lol, normally by oral like 10 minutes or maybe even quicker sometimes lol. but from penetration i dunno 20 mins i guess unless i fake it then i dont
     
  5. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    Usually within 5 minutes.. Depends on how horny/wet I am/the situation.. The feeling of a cock sliding in and out of me while I rub our juices all over my clit at the same time is awesome.. I'm a pretty easy cummer too though so the more I get off the wetter I get, and the wetter I get the easier it is to get off..
     
  6. lakshen

    lakshen Forn Siðr

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    Gawd that's hot, I want one of those too :D
     
  7. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    I haven't had an orgasm from sex.

    If I'm masturbating, then I can do it within three minutes if I try.
     
  8. Jorma's Branches

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    That sucks. :(
     
  9. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    it really all depends.. anywhree from 5 minutes to a half hour. I could go longer if i try.
     
  10. Lew_Cipher

    Lew_Cipher Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Forever.... Fuckin' Zoloft! :(
     
  11. Trickster's Child

    Trickster's Child Banned

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    Forgetting the foreplay, from acutal sex I usually last around 20 minutes. My record is an hour and a half, and my shortest is about 3 minutes
     
  12. adameistervousier

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    depends on place and situation and girl involved
     
  13. PurpleGel

    PurpleGel Senior Member

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    i don't come until she's orgasmed. well, very rarely do i have to come before she does; sometimes i can't help it. that aside, i go anywhere between 8 minutes and 3 hours, but usually about an hour.
     
  14. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    Well, not really, considering I've only had sex once. :p
     
  15. Hacker

    Hacker Vescere Bracis Meis

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    Let's see... I read it twice and pow! I guess about 20 seconds...

    Ok, really... If I want to get off in a hurry about 3 minutes, but if I am looking to please my woman first, we usually go for an hour or so.
     
  16. gertie

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    it norally takes me awhile
     
  17. ThE_BluE_ShoE

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    extremely dependant on the particular situation. normally between 10 and 25 mins for sex. with alcohol, about 5 minutes. with MDMA, about 2 hours. if its oral, sometimes i'll cum within 3 mins. or so. i try not to force it either way (finishing too quick or dragging it out too long), and to just enjoy whatever's going on, while keeping how much she's enjoying it in the same priority. i try not to make sex a race or a contest, but rather a celebration. if you're really celebrating love and passion with someone, it's never really anything less than *great*. sometimes its better than great, but if sex is a struggle to suppress or speed up one's pleasure to the point that it's umcomfortable, then something's gone wrong. my problem is that i *do* make it a contest with myself, and consequently sabbotage my own intimate ecstasy by thinking that i should be doing a better job, which usually happens after sex if she says she didn't have as great a time as she might have another time. i've got to work on that.
     
  18. PurpleGel

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    damn, when i'm drunk i go for HOURS--usually 2-3 hours, in fact.
     
  19. GanjaPrince

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    Is it just me or does she all post the hottest things, [​IMG]that picture under her words really just... wow, you know. Sucking that lollypop, come on, that's a gift from zero point field (note: the zero point field is the consciousness energy connecting and containing all things now being proved by science)...

    Uhhh zero point field would it be too much trouble if one of them could manifest in my life? I'm not asking for a 10, just one that I'm attracted to and cums like orgasmik and we connect well, and have a great long lasting partnership...
     
  20. Chodpa

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    If you're going to have an orgasm, it isn't going to take two to three hours. The question wasn't how long do you have sex, but how long to get off. Also, if the woman isn't having an orgasm within a few minutes then she isn't going to have one through typical coitus.

    If a man isn't going to cum in a few minutes then he can't keep it up for hours, unless he's very young or on drugs.

    Average men and average women will have sex and orgasm within ten minutes. The hardwiring of the body isn't about keeping people having sex for hours. The mind can't hold the stimulating thoughts and the body can't maintain the stimulating action for much longer than a few minutes. This is due to the fact that it takes increasing stimulation to maintain a constant feeling of being stimulated. At some point the stimulation becomes painful or too much exertion.

    Anyone who thinks women want to fuck for an hour straight hasn't had sex. That's just the way it is. So to you virgins out there who brag about fucking for an hour. How about actually having sex with a partner.

    Though I believe the question about having an orgasm can also have been posed to you masturbators who wank for three hours too.

    Now making love, that's different, and isn't just about having an orgasm. That can go on for quite a while.
     

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