Boobies...

Ok, now that I have your attention. I recently took a look at the "official boobie club thread". I am aware that boobs are a major sexual turn on for (most) men. Am I the only one that doesn't get any more turned on by boobs than by elbows? In fact some of the boob pictures actually turned me off!!!

I have never been solely sexually attracted to boobs and I have a hard time sympathizing with guys that pretty much drull at the sight of them.

I am 100% hetero and very into ladies and very sexually attracted to legs and butts and other areas but not boobs. I usually tell people that I am not a "boob man" myself but really don't go so far as to admit that they do nothing for me.

Most of the time, when I am telling my buddies about a lady that I briefly met that I was attracted to or flirted with and they ask me to describe her and ask if she had big boobs I actually can't usually remember because I didn't pay any attention to that area. I can definately describe their butt though!

I read somewhere a while back that breast feeding has a lot to do with this pseudo-fetish of most males, and was told by my mother that I was, in fact, not breastfed.

I'm not necessarily turned off by boobs, but don't think they are one of the most sexy parts of a female either.

However, I do enjoy touching/fondling them during foreplay because they are very sentuous and the fact that they are sexually sensitive and stimulatory to the woman, but to me they are just another sexy part of an otherwise sexy lady.

The bottom line is that I don't think I am in any way nearly as attracted to breasts as most if not all men out there are, and I don't really see what the big thing is about them.

Anyone else feel this way? Or am I just a freak?

 

legs, ass, and boobies all kick ass

 

i really like boobs but usually only when they are covered behind something

it just seems moe sexy to me if the girl is wearing something


for instance....i think that this photo of Grace Slick is REALLY HOT
but that could be because i like her voice and music and all that shit
i have this thing where i feel that people are sexier when u no more abou them than just what their body looks like

 

ya know what's wierd?
Get this:

I actually resent the total power simple mounds of flesh can have over me!
I hate how the fine curve and bulge presented on the femminine form can send shocks through my spine. It really upsets me!!
Am I that simple? Can I not control the rising heat and passion? I shake my head in shame and then divert an incredible amount of energy into looking away from the perfect forms of flesh and attempting to keep my gaze on the woman's face.

What is it??! I think it must be nurture as well as nature. I'm sure men in the Amazon don't go wild over their women's breasts. They've seen them hanging there, bare, all their lives.

I've trained myself over the years to look at a ladies eyes despite the allure of curving flesh rising and falling with each breath held tight within some cloth and metal contraption.

woe is me!!

If the girls only knew how much effort it was to remain calm when presented with some scantily clad sexualized part of their body. They wouldn't be so high and mighty about 'men's mind in the gutter again'. It really IS difficult y'know.

 

THIS is the voice of experience talking. So, LISTEN UP DAMMIT!

I thought I preferred Larger women. So, I married the best one. We've been together 15 years now. She had 38 DD's and a 36 inch waist. Good enough, BIG enough for me.
Now that we've been together a LONG time, and we are both getting OLDER, She's Diabetic and had to lose weight. I still LOVE her. Get REAL those who THINK looks are EVERYTHING! Because you are WRONG.

 

I may disagree with your views, but I love that John Denver quote!

 

erm... where in this thread has anyone said looks are everything ???
Or are you just addressing a group in general. One that hasn't posted here yet?

people can talk about looks and let it be taken for granted they are not dictating that they are everything. you been a bit presumptious no?

 

Matt and Tao,

I agree wit both of you. I was merely stating my seeming odd departure from the very common male sexual attraction to breasts. I think everyone has their certian physical "fetish" areas that simply and almost instinctually drive them crazy. But I also think that the true value of beauty is beneath the skin. I am not superficial, but at the same time I cannot help being attracted (or turned off) to certian physical characteristics.


I also definately agree with Drew.

What he said is so true.

Yeah, those lyrics pretty much describe my idea of some really good times!

 

You are the kind that likes to pull the stem off a pumpkin just to see the pucker it leaves behind.

 

Huh?

More likely to be frustrated if the stem falls off of my jack-o-lantern.

 

When she is obese, a smoker, and a diabetic, she won't make it past her 50's probably.

 

That is TRUE. MY point was, she was forced to change her body to stay healthy.
I accepted and welcomed that, because I love her anyway. Take another look at the last sentance of my last post.

 

Matt,

You are a very respectable husband and it sounds like you married into a relationship for the right reasons. That is very commendable. I would like to think that most marriages were built on the same type of unconditional love. Too bad many are not. I have not found "the one" yet but when I do I will strive for the same type of unconditional love and acceptance which I have found can be difficult to find. I truely believe that one of the most important parts of a prosperous relationship is one where both partners are truely selfless (opposed to selfish).

 

Yea

 

Boobies don't attract attention in me on their own. It's rather how the lady uses them to her feminine wiles. They can be very attractive in combination with many other influences or they can simply be boobies. I'm not really the type of guy that gets all that hot over boobs either until they're thrust in my face or something.

 

I don't like it when women in pornos have incredibly large saggy boobs that they think are the sexiest thing ever.

 

My boobs arew a bit saggy, I cant really help it.

Anyway... OI feel the same about bums... I always hear girlfriends going on and on about guys bums, how tight and cute and steely they are... and they do nothing for me at all, its just a bum...

I prefer their hair, their eyes and the veins in their arms... I like the smoothness of their skin... and the warmth of their breath.... bum bums... nah, not a thing for me

 

Lol "bum bums"

 

I love the curve of breasts, like in a silhouette. I used to really love me some tig ole bitties, but I find that even the smallest ones, when displayed properly, give me a bit of a tingle. It's really a matter of how the entire body looks before I start picking out the parts that I like the best. My current g/f has small breasts and a nice ass and a beautiful face, smile, and a fabulous personality...you know, the total package. I guess I've just gotten older? wiser? Maybe it's got something to do with the fact that large breasted women have treated me badly so I have a mental block against them.

For me, it's more of a woman thing...I like women, period. Unless they are my ex-wife...then I hate them, a lot.
$0.02

 

I like "$0.02"