Ok so I could never ask for a better boyfriend or anything. He is so good to me and I love to be with him right... Theres just one problem. When he first met me I was fighting with my best friend Roberta so I rarely hung out with her in the beginning of me and my boyfriends relationship. Well for the past week or 2 I have been hanging out with her more and more and once again we have become much closer. Sure there are things about her I would change such as how much she does coke. I dont have a problem with her doing it as long as its not around me. My boyfriend is really against it and doesnt want me to do it because hes had family members get fucked over and shit like that. I know that Im not going to do it, Ive done it before, I have no intentions of ever doing it again. The problem is that my boyfriend hates when i hang out with her because he gets all worried that im going to do it. I guess i just wish he trusted that i wasnt going to do it. It just sucks because we have been fighting so much lately because ive been hangin out with her. I wish he would accept my friends and want to hang out with them as well. I always hang out with his friends although not as much lately because ive been having urges to see my good old friends again. I have been having alot of fun hanging out with them and ugghh im just in a hole and confused
I don't blame him. Let's say your cokehead friend owes someone some money and hasn't paid in awhile. While on yall way out the house, the person who wants their money decides to put a few bullets through the first person they see come out the house. That person is you. While the doctors are pulling out bullet fragments from your brain, your friend gets away untouched and feels so bad about the whole situation. It's always the innocent ones that get hurt. Stay away from the person that is using coke, I'm not playing.
hm... well i live in a town where really nothing like that happens. Everything is paid for upfront I dont know...thanks though
i think your boyfriend is right i wouldnt hang around with her whilst she is doing coke anything could happen to you.....i had to really good friends and they ended up moving in together then started doing drugs so i stopped hanging round with then everyone did cause we didnt want to be around them whilst there doing drug.....so if i was you id listern to your boyfriend....
yeah I'd listen to your boyfriend too. He just love you by reacting this way, if he wasn't in love he wouldn't mind about it and let you get in deep shit. stay away from this cokehead friend.
But see i knew her before she was a cokehead weve been best friends since like freshman year. She never has it or even does it around me because she knows how i feel about it. I can understand that my boyfriend worries about me but its just iritating because it feels like he doesnt trust me. Like i said before coke is something im not interested in doing again. Its just my friend that I miss. I know i dont want to ruin my relationship with him over it so i guess i have to figure something out...
i see you and your bfs side on the situation. he should trust you not to do coke with her, but at the same time youve done it before and i would be lying if i say i wouldnt feel the same way about it. as long as she doesnt do it in front of you, i guess its fine, but dont believe that being around somebody whouldnt rub off on you cause eventually it could, but i dont know you well enough to determine how youd take it. as long as (again, another "as long as", representing the lack of stability of the situation) she keeps respecting you, its fine for now, but id advise you to take a longer look at your friendship (and relationship with the bf) to see whether the stress now could be squashed and if its worth it
you should just invite her over to hang with you & your bf..let him get to know her asa person instead of just as a cokehead..& develop a trust..& he'll see how you are as freinds & begin to see that its ok & that she has no intention of leading you into that lifestyle
You know your boyfriend is right. You should NOT be hanging out with a coke head and that is what almost everyone is going to tell you. Make all the excueses you want, but when it comes down to it you have to figure out what means more to you. Have you considered trying to help your friend get off drugs?
