Long distance woes...

Hey...its me again, about Phillip, my first boyfriend.
Just in case you haven't heard about my story, I'll make it short- I had my first boyfriend- but he was only in my town for 5 weeks, because he was visiting here...he lives in Germany, and has been gone now for about a month...

I've been keeping in touch with him over the past month, and we aren't really dating, but we both know that we are going to get together again once we meet up again. So, in a sense, whether either of us has a boyfirend again or not, we'll always be in the back of eachothers minds, you know? And I feel like I might compare (if I have any before I meet Phillip again) future experiences with the ones I had with Phillip (which at this point in time I feel can't be topped).

The sad thing right now about keeping in touch is that the past two weeks I've only gotten one email from him per week, rahter than the usual two, and the emails are shorter. The reasoning for this is because he's going into medicine, and he's training to be an EMT until the end of this month- which means he has to work 16 hours a day, sometiems more, and do this six days a week! He's told me that he barely has any time to sleep, or live...it sucks. I can't wait unitl he's done this training, so that we can talk more..

I've been waiting for him to write back to me, becuse I sent him a letter in the mail, but he said he hasnt gotten a chance ot finish the letter yet since he's been so incredibly busy, but that he will once he has to chance, and that the letter will be long and explicit...so I can't wait.

This is hard.

I'm so confused as to whether I should "move on" or not...Because we are still going to get together again, and knowing that kind of keeps us connected on a certain level, if you know what I mean.
What do I do?

 

follow your heart.... sorry, after school special moment there. i say, just keep an open mind. don't lose touch with him, but go about things with an open mind. i just repeated myself there didn't i. hmmm...

 

haha, its allg ood, thakns for the advice, i agree

 

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