When did you first admit you were gay?

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  1. Conspriacy99X

    Conspriacy99X Banned

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    Well I had experience. Then I just felt I was a straight. But gays are fiune with me. Matter of fact if you ask anyone most of the time the gays are a hell lot better people then straights and ect.
     
  2. SageDreamer

    SageDreamer Senior Member

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    I first admitted I was gay when I was about 12.
     
  3. kif

    kif Member

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    I came out to my family when I was 23. I was happy with who I was with and I didnt want to hide it anymore. I got tired of the lie. They accepted it and they accept him as part of the family. Wasnt easy coming out, but when I did I felt a hell of a lot better about myself and the situation I was (still am) in.
     
  4. lutsko67

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    I came out at 34 to the world. I have known I was gay since the age of 15. I stopped denying my true feellings and finally came out of my closet!!. I always new I was gay, but back in the 80s u had to hide it ... after aids came out everyone was on a witch hunt.. So, I got married to a man to try and be safe and secure.. Big mistake there!! I learned u cannot hide from ur self. So i got rid =of the asshole . My daughter is 9 and I love the fact that at least out of a mistake I made by getting married and trying to hide who I really was, I got the best thing in the world, a beautiful daughter!! Now, at 38, I am so very happy!! I have my soulmate and we are so happy together!!! My daughter, my partner, and me!!! U know, I am so grateful that today is not as bad as it was 20yrs. ago. The ignorance is still here but the witch trials going on for us gays ,have at least stopped. Being gay is a part of someones life I was born a gay woman , I did not chose it!!!
     
  5. Conspriacy99X

    Conspriacy99X Banned

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    That's good they accepted it. I'm too afraid if I were gay to admit it to my parents due to I'd see they wouldn't accept it.
     
  6. Jorma's Branches

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    Eww. Back when I liked Steve. *flinch*
     
  7. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    When i was like 13.
     
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  9. Ocean Byrd

    Ocean Byrd Artificial Energy

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    The first time I admitted I was bisexual was when I was 14... which was also the first time I admitted that I was a woman. Both my sexual orientation and my issues with transgenderism were first recognized when I was 7. I finally came out about it all earlier this year.
     
  10. yo_me_2_go

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    i was like 14 2
     
  11. DreamerSpirit

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    I first admitted I was bi a few days after I turned 15. And, just last night was the first time I admitted I was a borderline lesbian.
     
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  13. Ocean Byrd

    Ocean Byrd Artificial Energy

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    I think it also worthy of mention that I knew something was up with my gender when I was 12... That's when I started researching trans issues and what not.
     
  14. SpiritualExcess

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    prolly 14 or 15

    that's when i was okay with it, i've always known though.
     
  15. Jorma's Branches

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    Are you transgender?
     
  16. Ocean Byrd

    Ocean Byrd Artificial Energy

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    If you label it, ya. I just think of myself as a woman who was unfortunately born into a male body.
     
  17. Jorma's Branches

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    :)
     
  18. FWLP22385

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    I first realized it when I was 13. I had a boyfriend last year, felt awful about living a lie, had to finally come to terms with it and came out to family/friends this year. I'm still in the process of coming out to people, but my parents and brother took it really well, which was most important to me. It's still sort of confusing... I think I might actually be bisexual. I've never had a girlfriend, but I'm so much happier already knowing that my family will accept me no matter what.
     

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