Damn, I need to inject some much needed balance perspective here. You see I spend the vast majority of my time with men who can satisfy me and spend less of my time with men who can't, because of this I tend to forget what past sex was like. My ex-bf took like 30-40 min. to make me cum in this way, and sometimes I didn't even come close to cumming. But he didn't use the technique that my current bf uses. Also he used no lub whatsoever. My bf uses lub (usu. just saliva or semen) and the thumb technique I mentioned above is key, works like a charm everytime I say this cos there are some posts here of girls that don't like being fingured. Try what we do and maybe your opinion of it will change.