Does anyone think they are bad at Sex?

is it hard for u to find other 99 year olds that feal the same way or do you aim for younger people lol.

 

Ive only been with one girl, just a whole lot of times, Ive gotten good at making her feel good, but i might not be good at pleasing anyone else cause Im probably pretty customized to her at this point, some of the stuff she likes would probably stop another girls heat dead, and some stuff she never wants me to do would probably be really awesome for some other girls.

I guess I'm thinking im like a well worn pair of sneakers, really comfy to the person whos worn them for a long time, kinda akward for anyone else.

 

what do i never want you to do?

 

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ouch!

and to answer the question: no, i think i satisfy my man pretty good...

 

hehe i didnt mean it that way, you seem to want to do everything i like, my point was that we go well together, so thats why we want to do the same things. But say if i was paired with a girl who liked bdsm it wouldent work that well cause i wouldent be able to get into it. But a girl like you who likes the very loving exploring our physical and mental sensations kind of sex, works out to be really awesome with me.

and in general my point was that i dont think im good at sex, except with her. Though ive never done it with anyone else, i think what mainly makes it good is that we have a really good feel for eachothers bodys and love eachother. but the things about me that would go with someone else arent above average, im not unusualy agile or high in stamina and my penis is average size, and i dont think id be all that charming or handsome to most girls. So to any girl but her id just be an average guy whos only high point is that he cares that his partner feels good too. Or atleast i think id care, its hard to say how you would feel in a hypothetical situation, but then if i didnt like them enough to want them to feel good then i wouldent do them.

 

I probably am cause i have never done it hehe

peace
chickens

 

but sex being like pizza doesnt work that way. Both if their bad can be really unpleasent or even kill you. haha.

 

My man admits to not being very good at oral and tries damn hard to change that. Maybe if we meet more often, there would be a chance for improvement.


I used to like riding a man but when I went my current boyfriend, I lost so much weight all of a sudden, 8 kgs so I am now 47/48 kgs and all of a sudden, I don't have energy to do the riding. I wouldn't mind suggestions on how I can change this because I used to love riding a man and I can't offer that to the man who I think is the most incredible one I've met so far..

 

I often worry that i am, for 2 reasons.

1) I'm a very big guy (fat/muscle (More fat)) and my g/f's a very small gal' so i'm always worried that i'm gonna crush her.

2) I'm a very BIG guy. i'm like 12 inches and she's new into this kinda thing, so she's in pain a lot, which is a big turn off.

Still, she keeps telling me i'm great. *shrug* who to believe? me or her?

 

i think i am horrible at sex especially when i am on top. the whole reason i think that is im not very comfy with myself being nude and also i have really really really low self esteem and a very bad self image. but my bf says that i have no reason to have such bad self esteem and self image cuz im beutiful. and that he notices every guy and girl looks at me / hits on me/ basically wants me.

 

I've never had bad sex, I wouldn't have sex with someone unless I was extremely attracted to them and found them sexy, so it's guaranteed that I'll enjoy it. I never make the first move either so I think the attraction is mutual. I'm shy about it so if I didn't feel like someone liked me a lot, then I wouldn't go through with it.