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Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by honeytree, Aug 17, 2005.

  1. honeytree

    honeytree Member

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    Looking for advice on how to live. The problem is biger than I thought and I feal lost. I had to quit my last job because it was killing me working every night and I was geting warnings from drug dealers and some just bad people. The local law can only do so much. I was trying to find a day job for months and I'm still going out every day appling every where, I have flyers out and pass out cards to every one who will take them. I'm usualy so positive and up beet but I think it's about to get to me. I know I complane alot on this forum and I would love some advice.
     
  2. honeytree

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    I finaly had a good day looking for a job and eaven if thay fall through I wont give up I never have compleatly yet and who knowes what tomarow will bring I guess I'm not ready to do what ever I think I want. Maby I'm finaly breathing again or maby for the first time. I think I know I have some problems like wanting to have a partner in life like maby it would make things better and maby like in the past it only made things bad. Maby I have to find my self and be alone for a few more years. I love haveing positive people in my life not just for me but my little ocean also. The bills cant kill me just hurt my ego. I hope to have a home befor winter and if not I hope soon. I pray all the time and maby thay are being answerd in a diferent way. Thanks everyone for the thoughts love Honey.



     
  3. searching4nirvana

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    hey.
    just keep staying positive.......or prospective employers may pick up on any negativity and dispair. i know how hard life can be. im trying to look for a new job closer to home that pays enough and gives me time with my son. i am a single mother and sometimes my income doesn't seem to stretch far enough. my ex left me with multiple bills and pays no child support. i don't seem to even have enough time in the day to make friends or date. i am 1000 miles from everything i've known growing up and sometimes i feel very lost and alone wondering how the heck my life snowballed out of control and into craziness........but then you just gotta put your life into perspective and try to dig yourself out of whatever hole your in. good luck though.

    ps- what part of alabama are you in?
     
  4. Rigamarole

    Rigamarole Senior Member

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    Well I happen to know an awesome way to make a living, and all you have to do is prepare mailings in your spare time. In fact, some of the most dedicated members of the program make as much as $25,000/wk!

    Just send US $59.99 to my address and I'll send you a starter's kit that tells you everything you need to know. Good luck!
     
  5. lawngirl

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    im a little confused... you're getting warnings from drug dealers because you're working every night? why? it seems that if you owe them money, they'd be happy that you're working, because that means you can pay them back...

    what sort of places have you been applying to? it sounds like you need something with flexable hours, so here are a few ideas:
    restaurants (if they serve breakfast, too, then you can work early... if they have a bar AND serve breakfast, all the better)
    grocery stores (they need people to stock shelves before open and after close)
    coffee shops

    if you're having problems with dealers and "bad people" then you might not want to work at a lot of 24-hour places (ie: a gas station, 7-11, etc); you're likely to get late night visitors.

    you could also try and find a local temp agency, if you're looking for something more like a 9-5. offices are good, because the dealers and such can't just walk in and freak you out. also, working as a temp can be a good way to build up a resume so you could get a permanent position at one of the places you might temp for.

    going corporate might be something to look into, so you can get some good employee benefits, especially if you've got kids.

    don't give up and keep trying! like someone already said, prospective employers might pick up on your negativity, which would turn them off... so just try to keep positive! good luck!
     
  6. searching4nirvana

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    DO YOU DO THAT? ive heard about alot of those that are hokey..... and you supposedly have to spend money upfront on postage and stuff.
     

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