dose any one ever talk about love other then sex?

Im enduring hard ship for I will not see my love for another two years. she is 16 and im 19. her parents see the age diference and are very agenst me. Im good kid tho. and ive done everything i could to make them see that via other people who know me. i think my worst problem is that i never did show direct compasion towards them. they just tell her that they know im a good kid but im to old and she has to wait till she is 18 to be with me. I know what your thinking, why dosent she go agenst her parents, but she loves them and is sick of hurting them. We did talk on the phone and e mail but they would find out time after time. so now we are just going to talk on are aniversery and my birthday, and when ever she just can take not talking to me in between. And some day i will be with her again.
so i ask of you, do you belive that true love can never fade away?

 

please, anyone, let me know what you think. sometimes its realy hard to get by the day when i think that she might not love me when the time comes. the only thing that keeps me going is faith.

 

i believe if it was meant to be, in the end it will all work...i share your fears as well...my boyfriend leaves tomorrow for appalachian state....300 miles from the place i'll be my whole senior year....faith is a necessity....but many times it fails me

 

there's also a relationship forum which may elicit more responses... I don't have any good advice on relationships, sorry hon

 

thanks for reachin out "jack-a-roe" and "ihmurria" i guess ill have to go to a different fourm to find more people who can help. thanks again

 

well i have to say firstly that your both so young and if it is meant to be then it will be.but aswell as this you have to think if this is your first love and it is so intense now 2 years is a long time for you both to wait.your going to think what the heck does she know i love her .im not disputing that i just dont want you to get so bogged down at such an early age.my advise would be go with it and see what happens .anything could be around the corner at your age you are still growing .i wish you well and hope you realize your dreams

 

Most guys don't know that the worst way to get a women is to start off on the sex subject.I mean comon we know what you want but you don't have to just blurt it out..Try talking first & make the connection.. I just don't know why men don't get it

 

not all guys are so clueless
& some girls are just as bad
but yea i agree with ya there

 

Perhaps I'm jaded, but I think in two years you two will be over each other and move on.

 

It really depends on how much you two love each other, but what's a better way to test whether or not you two should be spending your lives together than being seperated for two years?

I have a similar relationship so I know exactly how you feel.

 

hey..ill give my two cents in and say that i think that a persons first real love is always the most memorable..in the situation you seem to be in, you two were not broken up by a loss of emotions, but rather something forced. I think you should live your two years apart from each other, see what lifes about, then if you even just hang out when shes allowed to, if the magic is still there, then you really know you have something special too. at least that's the way i like to think =]