I dont expect anyone to read this but i would feel a lot better if i got this out. I cheated on my boyfriend...he's a drug dealer...and i cheated on him...he'll never know (im like 6hours away from him by plane) but i know he would never do anything to me...he's just a really good guy. But i feel sooo bad...this has made me realize how much i like him....i feel like crying...i cant belive i would do this...im honestly not the cheating type... omg...wut have i done...
thanks for the suggestion...i'll be more careful next time. I don't knwo why I cheated on him, it just happened...i didnt plan it..
Oh relax. You are 16......you feel bad about it? Well there is your lesson for the next time. Dont feel so bad about it...you are too young to be taking shit so seriously. And uh....yeah, nevermind.
So, erm you are 16, your man is a drug dealer, and he lives 6 hours away, and you are bothered about cheating on him? All you have done is be normal. Don't stress so much. Theres plenty of time for that in the next 80 odd years!
come on people. how would you have reacted if someone that was 22 or 41 said to you when you were 16 that you are only 16? you can't dismiss her feelings like that. you have learned a lesson. how horrible do you feel? do you ever want to feel that way again? then don't do it again. if you felt nothing, then that is when you should worry. just my two cents
I wouldve thought....ya know, they are right, I am only 16 and that counts for something. No one dismissed her feelings by pointing out her age.
i just wanted to say i think you and your boyfreind want work out anyways b/c you and him live so far away, how you know he has not cheated on you? i think you are wasting your time!!! do you see him alot? well one thing i have always heard it will come back on you need to think twice next time you decide to cheat....
Yet another fine example of why long distance relationships DON'T WORK. Especially at that age, sheesh...
Is it there in your relationship, cheating? I never cheated 'cuz I never had a relationship where it could happen, I mean, if the girl or the guy I'm dating is too far...who gives a shit. It's not like I'm this insensitive guy, but let's be real, if it were a great thing and you did that you did 'cuz you were needy and if it were bad...why should it go on anyways? I had sex with this guy a couple weeks ago and I'm seeing another girl...he's gonna come to my city in 15 days and so what...should I care? Why? I miss him, he's incredibly nice and cute, but so is she and she is here...if things get like - don't touch anybody else while we're dating - with her, I'll be a good friend for him...but people, think twice before having this feeling of belonging to people, that's terrible! Just don't mind and everything will be alright and if you mind then go talk to him about it and say how you did it and how much you luv him.
Srry...i think you guys got the wrong impression...I'm not in a long distance relationship, I was, and still am, on vacation visiting my parents (I go to a boarding school) but I would like to thank everyone for their posts, its helped me a lot.
seriously, i'm only 18, and if you think i'm talking down to you saying you're only 16, well i'm only 18. now, i know that people find cheating such a horrible thing to do, but why should we feel that way? no really, have you ever sat down and thought about WHY it was such a horrible thing? well i think it's because people have a thing called jealousy and greed. if you love someone so much, wouldn't you want them to have fun? or would you want them to only have fun when you're around? personally i think that you should stop worrying. we're still young and should be doing wild and taboo things while we still can. a committed relationship with a person you plan on spending your life with is alot different then a highschool boyfriend. no matter how much you love him now, chances are you will one day stop.
dont worry about it love. he wont find out & i'm pritty sure that he is doing the same. firstly, he's a drug dealer, never trust drug dealers, if you do you will get very hurt like i was.
