I want my parents to die. This is not teen angst.

man your right...they should die but i say they should have died before you were born . you self rightious prick. who the hell are you to decide such things.....oh i remember who you are ...your the self rightious prick!

 

No, its not a good example.... Being a parent is a wonderful and loving thing and I deeply enjoy it.
I think this thread is a perfect example of human ignorance.

Every life has a purpose. That purpose is to Live. Maybe the posters mother (or father) has internal growth left to do. Things that the poster knows nothing about.

I think this post is also a perfect example on realizing that your parents aren't perfect, they are human. Once you are an adult why not act like one and take on the responsibility of one and become an asset to society instead of being cruel and cold.

Why not be an inspiration for your parents?

Why wish death upon anyone? Why not wish a continued life full of love and peace untill they grow old and are ready?

I think you should really do some soul searching and realize that now you are an adult you can spread your wings and fly and become even better. Every day you can choose to be better. No-one needs to die for you to make that choice. I think you should go get some flowers for your mother and a card for your father and thank them for giving you the beautiful gift of life.

I think you need to look into the beauty of life and understand that life is for living.

I really do hope that you can find an inner happiness and calm and realize that your parents are very much a gift to you. They love you and I hope that before its too late you accept them as an asset to your life and our beautful planet.

Edited to add~ I hope that my parents can live as long as possible so they can see every acheivement I make. Im 28 and still seek to make them proud. It makes me very happy to see my children love them with every drop.
I was raised by a single father so when I say parents I mean my dad and his wife. But Im very close to be dad.
When my dad becomes very old and needs care, I will be there to take care of him to the very end because he nurtured and cared for me.

This entire OP is so sad

 

I dont think you understood my comment at all....

 

If I did I do apologize, But I took it as you ment people shouldn't have kids because the result is the OP'er

 

well dont apologize hon.. I meant it as a joke, cause I think its horrible to say how you want your parents to die, or to even fascinate about your parents death, thats just horrible imo...and was being sarcastic with my comment "this is another reason why not to have kids" I didnt mean it, just being sarcastic cause I could never imagine myself wanting my parents to die, ya know...

 

i think you are a very sweet person
but i don't think shroom ment any harm by what she said...

anyway...yea um wishing people were dead is not my thing ...
one more time just to clarify, I only ment that I understand thinking that my parents are getting closer to thier end but i most certainly would not wish for it to be any sooner then it will be...
darn it this thread is putting a bad taste in my mouth :$


edit~ i took a rather long time in replying and now i feel silly :&

 

Its hard to understand tone on the internet....I know what you mean, its just so sad.... I wish people would value life more.

 

I just want to say:
Be careful what you wish for.

I'm not going to lash out on anyone, it's not my style-- but, poster: please, do be careful of what you wish for.

I used to wish that my parents would get divorced while I was going through my teen angst period--- and now they are, and I feel horrible, and I wish I never would have thought that way.

I was so digusted by my parents in every way up until a year or two ago when they decided to call it quits... It was a KICK in the face, and made me realize how MUCH I loved both of them.

Now I honestly can't get enough of talking to my parents; I regret every moment I spent angry with them, and every moment that I had wished they would end it.

I'd also like to point out--that my mother used to wish things like this about her father, and then he killed himself [when I was 3]--- and now she regrets the way she was with him everyday... and has been in and out of therapy for depression over the issue.

 

Numbly pondering the death of my father. Looking back two decades and a few years I can not help at times at many times wonder, if the man who abandoned my mother and my siblings, never paid child support, left us with now income. Hes been 'dead' for years. I could say I would have had a much more decent emotionally stable childhood, had the biological father who lived just 4 blocks away from us, never making effort to even see his children, no effort to even care. No emotional, finacual, help to his family our family would have greatly benifited from his death back then.

As a child having a dead father would have been closure instead of knowing he was down the street and cared not enough to see his children, get a job, yet managed to make it to his daily drunk. Had he have just up and died the grieving for the stranger made to his children over twenty years ago would be of an excusable nature. Not that of simple stranger he remains today. My family could have lived off his Social Security and had a better life back then.

My father is walking around alive yet dead to his own children. He is really such a stranger even though I seen him a month ago. He is dead in some ways. The abandoment will follow me till he dies, which will not matter now, as it is not easy to grieve over the death of a total stranger. His death when his liver fails or what ever will simply be that of final closure in a long messed up book.

His total abandonment had it been the caused by death, would have been much easier to process, to understand, to be excusable, not blackout I love you's and drunken forgotten promises made over and over. His death would do not benifit for me now, unless I would be able to have the trust fund he lives upon, become the next generation passed down trust fund to me to live off of his son. Either way the damage is done and irreversable so if he lives or dies either way no one wins. lol makes me wonder if he comes here to this site and read this post and says "is that my son?" he would never really know. Like I dont know him.

 

Bad Oedipud! bad! go to your room now!!!!!

 

It's Oedipus, not Oedipud.
Oedipus didn't know he was killing his father when he killed him. Also, he fucked his mother, but he didn't know it was her either, when they did the deed. When he found out who he'd actually been killing/fucking, he blinded himself.