Question for the laides

First of all, Im drunk.

Here is my question ladies. There are a lot of ladies on here that sem to be gorgeous humans. Insdie and out. Many of you captivate me. But Im sure there are constantly dudes hitting on you, trying to get cucked, etc.

Does a mostly tough guy with a good heart, that drinks and smokes ganja and occasionally pops pills have any chance at acquiring a girl with beautiful depth? IF nott, my drugs will be my lifetime companion, I want some pure, intense love or nothing. So please give me your opinions while I tip back another bottle.

 

personally, I don't find someone who does drugs attractive. for me that includes ganja, yeah, I'm weird for someone who frequents the forums or is 19, I don't think most other girls feel that way. There's a guy I really like who isn't much older than you (25), but I won't date him while he does pot regularly or while he sells drugs (his current way of making money), it's too big of a turn off for me

 

What if someone was not a pothead and not a dealer and did drugs for beneifcial reasons, such as spiritual? Not too often but every now and then. Would you still hold that against the person? Are there exceptions or are you completley against being with someone that does a drug.

 

Thanks for the replies. How ironic... I was driven to drugs and alcohol mainly because of heartbreak coming from relationships with women, and my coping methods might ultimately deter any women in the future., There is still a poet somewhere down there, but I guess it doesn't matter to females if I am always blazed or drunk. Intersting, well I guess I will just have to live my life and see what happens. Anyone else?

 

And to clarify, I dont sell drugs.. I just buy them with legitamite money.

 

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I see what you are saying. I have come across a few females who I initally connected with, then they find out I drink or smoke or whatever, and suddenly want nothing to do with em. Which is hard to deal with, because as fucked up as I may be, I still consider myself a genuine guy who would do his best to make the girl I love always happy, never sad or alone feeling, and would defend her honor or whatever may be needed. But I guess they want some popped collar dude with no problems, but would most likely forget about her when a "hotter" girl is hanging from his sack. It's just like a fucked up cycle.

Maybe I should find a girl as fucked up as me, but with a tender heart? Not very easy to accomplish..

 

I wouldn't say I'm fucked up.. but I do recreational drugs.. I drink alcohol, smoke pot and smoke cigs. I find it hard finding a guy that is okay with these things myself. However, I buy only like an 8th of weed every other week and I also am against going to work while under the influence of weed or alcohol. If a guy isn't completely strung out on drugs and is responsible enough to make a living to pay for his habit as well as make enough money to support himself, I would like him based completely on his personality.

I'm probably one of the sweetest girls you could meet. 100% honest, 100% loyal and yet guys don't like me due to either my piercings, my drug habit or the fact that I'm a bit on the chubby side. I feel your pain.

 

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Pansy, I value your input. You are wise. I do have my own problems, I don't lie, but I also am strong and full of ambition. Sometimes I think I will always be alone though, but I think a lot of it is I feel I dont want to complicate some sweet girls life with mine. I have let so many girls slide throuigh my fingers because I thought she could find someone better for her.

Weeble, I know how you feel. You are a great person and you will find it too. Have peace and good vibes.

 

Dogs are a great companion for the lonely. If I pass out on the floor, my dog sleeps right next to me. If I go to bed normally, my dog sleeps right next to me. I love that dog.

 

LOL, I smoke an eighth a day on average.. I also smoke a bowl while shaving for work. Last summer I worked at a car dealership, got stoned every morning and at lunch, and I was one of the most respected technicians there. They had no idea, until I refused the random piss test haha. Oh well I was moving anyway.

 

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Yeah and I feel guilty for that. In highschool it was so bad the girls called me the untouchable, because none of them could get me to totally open up. I wasted chances at getting to know great people, because I thought they shouldnt have to be subjected to anything less than perfect. I know its fucked up, but its how I thought. And still think to a certain degree. Except now they usually leave on their own once they see me partying.

 

hey just be patient. Love comes when u never expect it. that happend to me. I was a drunk,, failed in my love life. a stoner and one day i meet the perfect guy who i was trying to buy pot from . now im with him and planning to stay with him forever. I dont understand why some girls dont like guys who smoke pot the girl will come along and if she really likes u shell accept u how u r.. no matter wut!

 

Thanks Starburst. And yeah, because I will never quit the herb. I might change my habits, but it means so much to me. It has made my life better.

The other shit I could quit without a probem

 

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NO, not on a pedestal. It's really hard to figure out/explain.

Anyway, very good advice once again. I will heed it, although I don't think it would be a problem with me anyway. I am pretty damn thoughtful,a d don't ever ask people for money. And I have a fundamental problem with using hard drugs for recreational purposes. I'd like not to be a junkie in my lifetime.

 

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I need a woman like pansy.

Where are all the other opinions?