it is terrible, i am boring of making love, what should i do???

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by leafleaves, Jul 14, 2005.

  1. leafleaves

    leafleaves Member

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    for me , i dont like to make love these days.
    what happen???
    my work is not pretty busy.

    i am not very tired and exhausted.
    what should i do???

    i guess that maybe i make loves time too much before.
    before i love with that girl,
    i am eager to make loving everyday.
    even someday ,making lover lots of times a day.
    do you believe me???

    really, to tell the truth, really making love three times a day.very happy , not feeling tired.

    but now , i am really boring making love now.
    Making love with the girl, seem to finish my homework, have to finish ,to finish this task and mission.like to take my paper out.

    what should i do ??????????

    please come in here and saving me ,my dear friends.
    what should i do???
     
  2. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    I will say (not to be rude) i did have a little trouble understanding that.

    If you are bored of sex then why bother? have a break from sex and dont pressure yourself into thinking you have to have sex, i am sure the feeling will come back

    I am not sure if you are in a relationship, if you are obviously this would complicate matters but if you have an understanding partner then perhaps you could just give her oral and pleasure her when she feels she needs it and just give sex a break?
     
  3. BlackVelvet

    BlackVelvet Members

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    I agree, and maybe take it to another level where both you and your partner could explore other healthy possibilities of having sex..ya know maybe 'role play' or something :)
     
  4. mant_its

    mant_its Banned

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    Try playing with and stimulating your anal cavity.
     
  5. leafleaves

    leafleaves Member

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    thank you for your advice ,really thank you for your rememdering me.
    right, just chante the style fo making love with girls.

    searching for the stimulating style,trying the other fresh way,and enjoy a new changes.
    Okay,
    it is a great idea.
    it is a brillian idea.

    really thank you for your advice.
     
  6. leafleaves

    leafleaves Member

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    yeah,
    maybe i have gave myself too much pressure.
    and the heavy pressure will make someone boring to make love and sex.

    yes, i will not always think about having to sex with my girls.
    i am thinking too much that.

    yes, my friend, you are right.
    making love will make someone relax and happiness.
    Thinking about it will complicate matters.

    okay,
    accepting my suggestion.
     
  7. hallowedbethyname

    hallowedbethyname Member

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    I don't think he is fluent in english, I'll just put it that way (no offense)
     
  8. fayeautumn

    fayeautumn Visitor

    this thread almost seem fake. an easy advice, like trying new stuff, and he's all greatful for it. you t hink he had already thought of it. but just in case, leafleaves, there are lots of way to spice up sex life. if it's true and you're doing the normal t hing day in and day out, no wonder you're bored. sex can be wonderful in all its glory and in all it ways. like a another member said, role playing. my husband's favorite is when i dress up l ike an innocent catholic school girl with pigtails and do whatever he wants. lol. then there's bondage and spanking, dominating, submissive, anal. there are so much you can do. you can always th row ice cream in to the mix :D. your girl might be interested in all of that, even dominating you sometimes or you her. you never know about a girl's fantasy or even a guy. good luck to you
     
  9. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    he lost his sex drive.
     
  10. leafleaves

    leafleaves Member

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    dont laugh at me.
    just give me some encourage.

    exactly , i am not fluent in english.
    but i have tried my best to do that.
    please forgive me.

    just dont put it the way,
    i have not offensse.
     
  11. leafleaves

    leafleaves Member

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    thank you for giving some such execellent advice.

    my dear friends,
    i am not fake.
    you misunderstand me.

    you said,
    there are lots of way to spice up sex life.

    could you give me some several website link ,right???


    thinking all of above,
    maybe i just ignore the girl's fantasy !

    okay, trying the role playing .
    my friend, liking your husband's favorite,
    i also enjoy dalliance with the role--the school girl.
    i want that she does what i want.

    and the second figure situation,
    just crazy about throwing ice screem in the mix when both
    of use made love. learning from the porn movies, throwing ice screem in the girls's chests.
     
  12. Wonder Girl

    Wonder Girl rhapsody in pink

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    I believe you,it's just that there's a communication gap...you're English is not so bad,though.

    Talk to your girl,ask her what she likes. Don't be afraid to speak up about your fantasies. Try new things....there are millions of things you can do,it will be fun,and hopefully,it will spice things up a bit.
     
  13. fayeautumn

    fayeautumn Visitor

    i'm sorry leafleaves. i can't give you and website links. what i have told you is from my life. i like to do all of the things i have mentioned and more. the ice cream one is not like what you told me. we dont' throw it at eachother, or did i misunderstood? have you ever hear about a book called "101 night of great sex?" it's a book that have different inserts for what a man can do and a woman part. though lots of it is not impressive, some of them are actually quite good. i actually got my ice cream idea from it. this is where i got 3 flavors of ice c ream in seperate bowls, towel, and a heat insulated bowl of warm water. i tied my husband to the bed and i slowly dripped my choice of ice cream on a part of his body, then i licked it. my warm mouth would sooth the cold. then if i want to be licked, i would put some ice cream on me and bring that part to my husband to lick or suck ;). when i am done playing and want to get to bussiness, i either suck him til he comes then ride him, or ride him til i and him come while he is still tied. after i am done with him, i clean him up with the warm towel, then let him go. i like this game because i love to torture my husband. i like to hear him hiss because of the cold then mmoan because my warm mouth made it better. no throwing ice cream though.
    now, did you know you can do something else with an orange/ grapefruit beside eat it? :D lol
     
  14. mant_its

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    Don't be an all knowing, sarcastic douch bag!
     
  15. SirTokesAlot

    SirTokesAlot Lives

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    Then dont have sex... do you need an off button or something? God use some common sense instead of having other people think for you...
     
  16. SkeeterVT

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    Making love three times a day, every day? That's too much. Nobody has that kind of stamina to keep doing that for an extended period of time.

    Sounds to me that you overdid it and you need some down time to "recharge your batteries," if you know what I mean.

    -- Skeeter
     
  17. Davino

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    You seem sub-mental, DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN. God bless us if this is how it'is...
     
  18. leafleaves

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    really thanks for all your helping me.

    "recharge your batteries,"
    yeah,
    i really need to recharge my batteries.
    recharge my power, eating full,and sleep well, have a sweat dream, dont do the day-dream.haha!!!!!!!!
     
  19. Meeshka Chaukinov

    Meeshka Chaukinov Senior Member

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    Maybe you should try to see how long you can go without having sex. i don't know, maybe for a challenge or something.
    good luck.
     
  20. AutumnsMoonChild

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    Try kama sutra,man.
     

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