quick question...

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by noobie_hippe, Sep 6, 2005.

  1. noobie_hippe

    noobie_hippe Member

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    ok, I love my girl very much, more then anything. I don't know what I would do if I ever lost her. she truly keeps me sane. any way, it seems that all we do is make out, or fuck, like every time I go to her house or she comes to mine, now I'm not complaining, oh god I would never complain about that, I thank god I get it so much.
    but here's the question, I don't want her to think that that's all I want her for, like I would always love her even if she never did anything with me, but how do I let her know that? and also how do I know if she just doing it to make me happy or if she really want to? like I mean I don't want her to think she has to just to make me happy, and I will be happy any way...I always tell her that I love her for who she is and she never has to do anything, but she just like "I know, but you have needs" or something like that, wtf does that mean?
     
  2. mushie18

    mushie18 Intergalactic

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    talk to her about it. thats the only way to find out what she is thinking.
     
  3. Style

    Style Member

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    I also agree on talking to her. Communication is important in any relationship.
     
  4. noobie_hippe

    noobie_hippe Member

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    I do, she says she knows I love her, and stuff, but I don't know if she really knows or not? thats why I want to find a way to prove I do...
     
  5. Oz!

    Oz! Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    man, go the old fashioned route :)

    flowers, chocolate, give her gifts for no particular reason.......spoil her a lil'..

    it's horribly cliched, but it's cliche for a reason.....it works :)

    let her know yer adore her physical affection, by reciprocating with affection that is shown outside of bed, it shows that you think about more than just the next legover
     
  6. redryder

    redryder Member

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    well don't buy her cliched things... show her that you care about what she likes, and put some thought into it.. you don't necessarily ahve to buy her things to spoil her either... you can take her somewhere, be romantic... snuggle under the stars... share something intimate with her other than sex.. write her a poem :p hehe

    one time my boyfriend (whom i love very much) bought me some earrings and perfume but i don't even wear perfume or jewelry so it made me think he didn't really care or didn't think about me when he was buying the stuff. i'm sure that wasn't the case, but i would definitely suggest something personal to do for her.. think about what she likes and cares about.

    hope that helps!
     
  7. toolmaggot

    toolmaggot Nuts Go Here.

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    Tell her how much you love her while she's bent over the arm of your sofa.
     
  8. Al13n

    Al13n Member

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    ^ lol
     

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