I'm still waiting for that beautiful goddess to approach me and woo me off of my feet!!! I'm a very friendly and talkative guy, heck I'm also very generous and selfless, but If a girl thinks that I'm going to give into her high maintence requirements just because she is stuck on her self, she obviously doesn't have a clue. I believe in mutual friendships slowly developing into steadfast romances. I've also seen both types of women (needy/highmaintenance vs. selfless and mutually generous), but I haven't met the latter who I was attracted to or who wasn't already married! By-the-way, I'd have to sympathize a little with IronGoth. Not because I feel the need that I have to impress or "buy" a woman's affection, but I do tend to spend a heck of a lot more money when I am dating someone, and I can honestly say that I probably wouldn't have been able to afford my motorcycle If I had been in a relationship in the recent past! But, hey, now I'm ready for a hot biker chick now. And, in reality, I get much more attention (unintentionally) from ladies when I am on the bike. Thats pretty ironic!
That would be the "women love bad boys" thread in which every woman under the sun insists she doesn't and therefore that isn't true, though we all know it is. Don't waste your breath.
shit. i bring it up because i AM an example. i know a ton of girls who haven't ever been asked out. most times they get set up by other people or take the initiative. i guess i'm a butter troll, whatever that is. but my experience is that i'm pretty intimidating to the sac-less sort of man.
seriously, i'm so glad i don't believe for a minute that all men are like you. 'cause you're kinda pitiful.
RE: shit. i bring it up because i AM an example. i know a ton of girls who haven't ever been asked out. most times they get set up by other people or take the initiative. i guess i'm a butter troll, whatever that is. but my experience is that i'm pretty intimidating to the sac-less sort of man. I wouldn't say intimidating. More like "too much work". You aren't a butter troll, for what it's worth and from what I can see of your pic you aren't bad looking. But just as how MOST women don't want a whiny, spineless child of a partner (though they do their damndest to convert any man they end up with to same - then leave him) most men really aren't interested in someone who's combative and hardened and bitter.
That could be so, but I'm too old to pretend to be someone else. The human race can take a flying ---- as far as I care, and if that means I die alone, bury me upside down so the world can .... well you know.
The sad thing is, you're probably right. I used to have LEGENDARY arguments with a head-case, borderline personality female engineer on another site. Everyone wondered when we were gonna meet in person, beat each other three quarters to death in mortal combat, and then engage in full-on vicious Klingonesque intercourse on the spot. I never understood why people would think this...
lol. i always thought the klingons had the right idea. seriously, there isn't a single person in my circle of friends that isn't hard headed, argumentative, and completely incapable of getting along with anyone else in my circle. and passive men turn me off, mentally and physically. so, seriously, there's a woman out there, because i know other women a lot like me.
With all do respect, IronGoth, you need to get that stick out of your ass and lighten up a little... BROTHER
no real opinions or thoughts. likes women to lead him around and tell him what to do. that really brings out my evil side.
There's passive and then there's just "not interested in fighting" Sometimes it's just easier to deal with whatever totally inane thing is going on rather than bicker angrily for goddamn hours at a time. Women always have to be right and always have to have the last word, and God gave em more lung power than we'll ever have.
i'm not buying it. you should sit around my mom's house for a while. my oldest brother, while i love him dearly, is very passive. his woman completely runs his life. once, when he got a cold, he wasn't allowed near his daughter for over a week. he can't spend his money without permission, can't go for a beer, can't do anything. i think that's just disgusting. then my next brother is kinda the opposite: his way or the highway on everything. he's an ass. so, somehwere in the middle, is the right mix. a man with the sac to stand up for himself, but the intelligence to know when it doesn't matter.
RE: my oldest brother, while i love him dearly, is very passive. his woman completely runs his life. once, when he got a cold, he wasn't allowed near his daughter for over a week. he can't spend his money without permission, can't go for a beer, can't do anything. Yes, but if he mouths off to her once too many times, not only does he not get to sleep with her, but she walks out with the house and more than half his income.