Oh no, I didn't know that he knew!! What do I do?? Help!

hi yall,
so I met this guy a few weeks ago at orientation and I had a full on crush on him right away. Lately he's been really nice and he even asked me to go to this free Henry Rollins thing with him on monday. I haven't been sure that he knows that I like him and I am ceetainly unsure about what he feels for me. I just found out from my friend that 2 weeks ago at this party I'd invited him to this girl I know named Ashley met him and blurted out drunkenly "Is this the guy Tracy has a crush on?" So it seems that this guy has known for like 2 weeks that I've been head over heels for him and he's been really nice and invited me out AND he plans to come to this 9/11 party I've invited him to on sunday. What does it all mean? What should I do?

Please help,
Tracy

p.s friends and I were doing arts and crafts last night and I decided to make him a beautiful construction paper Autumn scene... I plan to give it to him when I see him next... is this a good idea?

 

9/11 party...classy...

it probably means he thinks you're pretty cool and he likes you to, but then you can't expect that of everybody so i expect it could also potentially means he views you as an easy lay. i suppose it all comes down to what kind of a guy he is (deep inside, not something that you would be able to know about him yet)

but i'd say either way he has some kind of interest in you, so consider what it is YOU want and then set about trying to find out if its compatable with what he wants. just go for it, if you like him.

 

If you like him and he's asking you out, what's the problem?

 

To that gift I'd say, if a random guy gave something like that to me, I'd throw it away and not think twice about it... But if a girl that liked me and I liked her (wich he obviously do, don't worry... most guys think it's cute when girls have a crush on us and are too shy to tell ) I'd put it up in my window or something, I'd be proud of it, cause it had an other value So I say just give it to him and see what happens, if he likes you he'd be happy even if you wrapped up a dead rat and gave it to him, just a little thing to show you're thinking of him, and to remind him of you

 

Go for it with the guy, he's obviously interested if he's asking you out. If you don't give it ago... You'l never know.

As for the construction paper Autumn scene... Without meaning to sound harsh, if a girl I'd only known for a few weeks, regardless of wether or not I liked her, were to gift me with something like that, while it is thoughtfull, I would have to say that id be more then a little weirded out by the gesture. I believe its always best to start out nice and simple, find/pick a nice single yellow flower and give it to him as a small thankyou, a very simple but thoughtful gesture.
Yellow flowers = freindship.... isn't that always the best way to start???
Good luck, hope all goes well.

 

Then hes probably into you too.

 

umm..i think a live rats a better gift then a mangled ol dead rat..lol but yea i think your both a lil shy & like eachother, so just let it happen naturaly, theres no need to "go for it" its already there, just let it take its own natural course, the cute lil gestures i think are a good idea, u seem young..theres no real hurry, so dont worry if your both just sorta silly & nervouse around eachother for weeks or even months, ya may just realize 1 day that it shifted from freinds to couple without you even noticing

good luck sweety

 

I say go for it but play it by ear and keep ya guard up. He might just be looking to bone you. You can never be too careful with guys now a days. I am one, not a normal one by any means but I know how they think.

Ah maybe I'm just old school...LONG LIVE THE 90's!

 

Bone him. That's what you should do.

Nesta... I'm raping your signature picture right now.

 

toolmaggot, i think you need to learn the difference between rape and surprise lovin'....

 

With Brian... It' be hot, sweet, passionate sex.

Oh god. Massive erection.

 

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