Ok so we both lost our virginity about a week ago.. been together for a few months and im pretty open minded about sex.. shes more nontalkative about it. well the first time it only lasted maybe five - ten minutes and she made me stop B/c it was hurting.. i did the candles and roses and all... this week we went again.. i still havent orgasm'd til tonight.. so we went for abotu 30-40 minutes and we really had to rap it up and get ready to leave and she didnt want to leave me hangin again so i finally finished and was tryin to at this point.. so i can last a good while.. now my question is.. i didnt want to orgasm til i gave her one first.. well now thats gone.. but next time that is my #1 goal.. so whats the best way to get to her or to open her up to be a little more open minded or so.. we havent talked abotu going down on her and i havent one it myself yet..??
Have you tried surgery? Brain surgery, I mean. I once had to deal with a very close-minded person. I invited them to my house for "drinks" and once they passed out from the Rufies I had slipped in theirs, I just took out a scalpel and went to town. Worked wonderfully. Didn't even have to whip out the Communist Manifesto or anything.
Try to communicate with her, and get her to relax. Then do a lot of foreplay and see what happens. I would have thought that was the best thing to do. Someone with more experience will be able to answer. Good luck )
roses and candles aren't foreplay, oral and fingering are. most women don't orgasm through penetration alone, so if you're waiting during intercourse for her to orgasm, she probably won't. help her out with one before you penetrate her, because chances are she won't orgasm with your cock in her unless you're stimulating her clit really well at the same time. why don't you bring up the subject with her? maybe she thinks your closed off and noncommunicative too, if the both of you aren't really talking about the issues you may be facing
ive tried talkin to her.. shes kinda new to some things to so shes not very positivewould like or not i guess it will just take some time.. im working on it. im just not wantin to let her go too long without making her enjoy it as much if not more than i do..
