I want him to go down on me all the time!

I always want my guy to go down on me, (I give him head a lot more then he gives me pleasure.) How can I get him to extremely enjoy it.

 

Hey i hope this helps...
Okay me and my last girlfriend both liked oral a lot but did get a little annoyed at taking turns because we were never pleasuring eachother at the same time so we just stuck to sex a while. Then she suggested that we try a 69...wow...its like my favorite thing ever now. I dont knwo if you guys have done it yet but if you havent maybe you should try because i think youll both really wanna do mroe of it...If nothign else he'll just have to face the fact that if he wants head hell have to give you head at the same time.

 

he says it 'doesn't taste very good.' how can i make it taste better? i hardly ever eat red meat heh heh.

 

Shave, shower.

 

flavoured lube. make sure you don't get too much in you. it contains glycerin. it sugar which will cause a yeast infection. hasn't happen to me yet but u gota kno these things

 

meishka i love your signature!

 

Pfft. You can't. I believe a guy either does like or doesn't like it. In my case, I love it, but then I'm extremely oral. I know of no way to get a guy to like it if he doesn't already -- much less "extremely enjoy it." You could promise him some sort of really motivating reward, but then that's not getting him to enjoy it, it's just giving him incentive to maybe do it more often, or longer. If you hate asparagus, do you think there's something that someone could do to make you "extremely enjoy it"? This is all about preferences that we all have, and which we don't selectively choose; we just find ourselves with them.

If this is gonna be important to you, better start lookin' for another man.
Are you cute? I'm available, and you'd probably have to pry me off that thing...

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

I like it too, since he corrected "lesbain" to "lesbian."

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

Yeah, you can do all that shit, or you can ditch him, buy yerself a plane ticket, and fly on over to my house. I'll go down on ya, free of charge! Hey, I'll even cover the cost of the plane ticket!

 

Yes, 69 is sa-weeeeet. The one criticism I have seen about it is that since each person has to be kinda focused on giving pleasure, part of them is distracted from the receiving (or vice versa). Lots of resources cite this problem and say that it could be better for each person's orgasm, at least, to be the sole focus for a 'turn'.

I myself love 69, though. Whatever may be lost in terms of that focus is made up for by the psychological impact of what is going on: I totally groove on the locked-togetherness and circularity of the act. It's very intimate and passionate.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

Yeah, but at 16, yer jailbait. Probably best for her to stick to us adults.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

If he dont wanna go down all of the time, then find out why. What keeps me from doing it is usually flavor or odor. those you can fix. If it is that he just dont like giving, Find a new man.

 

ps

so how do you fix it?
-shaving is out of the question for the time being (i'm too much a pussy :& unless someone's got a foolproof plan)
-i DO shower heh heh. i've been nearly compulsively clean for the past year.
-flavored lube... my boyfriend made a joke about that, and not wanting to try it.

so is there any other fix? maybe he just doesn't like giving...

 

ok, maybe I mispoke myself. I did assume odor and flavor was an easy fix. I assumed it was a cleanliness thing. I think I have been shown the error of my thinking. My most humble appoligies for my pomposity.

I just know the most paranoidly clean women that I have dated tasted the best, and odor was only an issue after long periods of no bathing time. IE after work.....well into a sexual session...etc.

Flavored lube might be fun. Just to get him thinking in the right direction ya know. I know i can only take so much of that stuff. But I never stopped because it was sickening...just wouldnt use it next time. I had a G/F that would only let me go down if we were using a flavor of mtion lotion she liked. At first. When she realized I didnt think she....well stank or was rancid in taste..... we could just have some good times.

The get a new man thing was very flippant and I appologize for that. If he is a new man get rid of himp ). I respect immensly trying to make a long term relationship better.

 

Uh, so is she!! She shouldn't stick to adults when she is 16 herself.

 

Oh, my bad! Hadn't noticed.

Maybe at 16 she's too young to be having sex anyway? That's my thinking about it. I really do think kids in high school should not be having sex. I won't deny that I really realllly wanted sex in high school (didn't get it til freshman year of college, though), but I think that on the whole, high school kids are not mature enough, and have other stuff they should be concentrating on. Instead, you get girls in high school dressed like whores becauase they think they're there not to learn, but to pick up some hot guy and fuck him in the back of his car.

Now, you're 26... Wanna come visit Florida? We can behave like adults...

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey

 

Just tell him, "If you want me to go down on you, you have to go down on me, first!" It's almost like the old saying, "I'll scratch your back, if you scratch mine."



~namaste~

 

you dont have to be pushy about it, just wash it up, and if you eat a lot of red meat try to avoid it. And just tell him you want him to. Thats all my girlfriend needs to do for me to eat her pussy enthusiasticly all the time, like atleast once every day.

 

make him toss your salad.
sit on his face!!

 

I would be Thrilled to have a g/f who wanted me to go down on her all the time!! WOW!!!!!!! Personally I think its just AWeESOME! Making a girl orgasm that way is sooooooo special! He probably doesn't realize what he is missing.